I love my girl friend so much but I think she's a liar and a cheat iv ask her if all her needs are being met she says yes but my gut says she's lying?

[onewhowalkspride]

people have callled me an empath. ever since i can remember i could always feel every ones emotions around me (felt sad at disney land when i was kid becuase of seeing all of the work the parents had to go threw for a few superficial hours of ''fun'' with kids at a place that is just out for money) any ways i love this girl so much i see such a beautiful girl inside but since iv met her it seem all of my gut insticts has been wrong and she wants me go go to a shrink wich i agreed. so as soon as i opend up and told her thing that bother me i find her dooingf these things so fuck with me iand she seems to enjoy infilcting pain of all kinds but i love her and alll i do is just showering her with love affection and compliments to hopfully bring out the girl i see in her. with this short story what would you guys do?

[Flower_Power]

If you don't trust her you shouldn't be with her. That being said, don't just assume your relationship is built upon lies. Enjoy her company, but if you do find concrete evidence she is cheating on you I recommend you break up. Again, concrete not circumstantial!

[onewhowalkspride]

thank you. i will enjoy her company as i do mostly, unless im in my ''bad'' state of mind wich has gotten better im going to try talking with a phyc, honestly if i take a step back completely and look at our relationship maby its not her and its my lo self opinion that is causing all of this pain. its very hard to admit but i accept that that is a possibility

[virtue2332]

One thing I've learned in life is you can only be the best you. There is nothing wrong with giving it your all. If you find out she's a liar then move on knowing that you were the better person in that scenario. You have to focus on what you are giving to the relationship instead of focusing on what you think she is feeling Or letting insecurity change what you bring. You can only ever control yourself and that can be a challenge at times. If she didn't want to be around she would be gone.

[exitseven]

okay- From what you say she hasnot given you any real reason not to trust her. Try to enjoy this relationship without worrying if she is cheating on you. Insecurity is not an attractive look.

[exitseven]

Thanks for the MHO😎

[Static_In_The_Attic]

If you love your girlfriend so much as they say if it’s not broken don’t fix it.

[Iron_Man]

Just enjoy the moment and keep your eye open

[onewhowalkspride]

thank you for the reply. yes i will try to do that i just get so hurt to the pouint of not careing about cleaning the house or going to work many people have died fromk a broken heart in my family im kinda getting worried if ill be the next. she's obious not going to kill me... i think lol but the hurt of when ithink she is up to something is fucked. i. e she came home with what looked to be bite marks and a hickie on her ti ti bone and she got all weird and emotional becuase i said some thing

[Iron_Man]

I’m sorry to hear that learn to relax a little bit

[In_Trance]

You're not 28