There was this girl who was in my class in high school. She was the most fun, bubbly girl who unfortunately was looked down by everyone and made fun of but she remained sweet and kind through all what I really loved about her. Her appearance was a bonus but she was different personality wise from all the girls I knew, that‘s what really stood out about her. We were together in class til senior year, I had a huhe crush on her that turned in love over time. I was too shy back then and only watched her from afar. After graduation, I still thought about her and was very much in love, stalked her a bit on social media to see what she wad doing. Then after year we saw each other again in a Cafe, but she seemed different. She also looked different, gained weight and just looked miserabel. She seems more cold, anxious and distant now, I don’t recognize her anymore. We did a little Smalltalk and then she left again, it was just a short minute. I tried not to make my shocked reaction too noticeable and behaved friendly but I asked myself during the convo what just happened. I was and am still very heartbroken seeing her like this when I think about how she was back then … I don’t know how I feel about her anymore but seeing her like that … I feel more bad for her now than love …
Sounds like she ran into some hard knocks in real life and hasn't done so well. But also sounds like you were in love with her pretty face and personality and now that those things aren't present, you're not interested. Shallow interest.
Try talking to her, she must be needing help. or maybe she just grew up and start suffering from life, again you can't know anything if you stayed away, ask her to know what is going on
You had a crush on her, watched her from afar and stalked her on facebook. Doesn't come across that you loved her. People change for the better and or worse to varying degrees.
Look dude just walking away from someone who isn’t the same proved you never truly loved. You said she made fun of her uniqueness bring that back. My 7th grade crush I ran into her she looked miserable and all as soon we started chatting she told she was married to the wrong guy and depressed shre debt through a seperatoon me being a pressence in her life jusg someone to confide in inspired her I was none judgmental she got her glow up. Now my story does not have a happy ending she ended getting cocky but that’s my story judg be there
