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If she is currently on the undecided group but she is planning to change I don't mind it, I wouldn't mind helping out with her but if she is flat ass lazy or request me to do all the work than that a big fat no.
I would need a better definition. Most people I know don't have long term goals. And if that were true I wouldn't be willing to date just about anyone.
But I think very different than your avg. Cat. I was planning my retirement at 25. Lol
I'm less concerned with her goals than her values and drive.
Yea, I don't care if she has her own goals, she can support mine and be along for the ride.
"Behind every great man.."
I am afraid because I started figuring out what I want this year when I will be 33 years old. I hope it's too old for me and girls won't give me a chance
Come on man you are still a puppy yet. If a woman will not even give you a chance and has her nose that high in the air to be that judgmental then I can't see where you would want to be with her to begin with. I am an old soldier at 66 years of age and if a woman tries to brush me off that's fine and I move on. I guarantee you that there is someone out there for everyone, you just need a little patience.
@HD1450 It's not about women. I meant that there is probably too late for to START pursue my dreams/goals/passions/hobbies/whatever.
No, in fact I consider the "I don't think that far ahead, and just live in the now" mindset to be a red flag for a bad relationship.
I don't think so. Can't have some dumb bish sitting on my couch just watching netflix all day and not making any money.
As I've failed every long term goal I set myself when I was younger and have the depression and feelings of worthlessness to prove it, yes I could.
yes, I could... short and medium term goals does not necessarily imply aimless or careless as the picture in the question seems to suggest
Define "date."
If we're just starting to date, then we can just go with the flow.
But we get serious and start "dating" each other, then we need to have goals for the relationship.
I feel like everyone else here answered a different question than I did.
Well you always have to have some type of a goal but to answer your question yes I will because I’m talking to a girl now that sits in her bedroom all day long and barely leaves the house She’s 30 years old
Depends
I certainly don't want to be with mooch or someone with no drive but if they have themselves set up straight then they are a maybe
it depends on if they get things done fast enough to have everything be short term goals, or if they have everything they want already. if they aren't a creative type though I'm not interested.
No. If I'm the only one with ambition, you're an anchor holding me back and I will cut you loose.
Yes as I’m young and still trying to figure out where I want to be in life
I believe, I really don't need to explain my life goals to someone who is going to be for a short period of time in my life.
No. Where would the relationship even be going? I don't see the point in a romantic relationship with no plans or even ideas for the future.
Nope.
I am not the hookup type guy. I can tell you that.
So someone with a plan would be good.
You and your partner should have the same goals in the relationship
I myself never start a relationship with no long term goals
I don’t waste my time for the one who’ll not be in my future
Yeah, but I would not support her financially, let her move in with me or have a kid with her