Why have most of the girls I've dated/tried to date treated me like crap?

[Anonymous]

I didn't date in middle school or hardly highschool, I started in 12th grade and ever since, every girl I've dated or tried to date either: leads me on, ghosts me, acts like I don't exist, or cheats on me, I don't go for girls that have a bad reputation either, I've always stuck to ones who seem decent at first but I've just never been able to find a good one to date for more than 6 months

[Little_Bumblebee]

Two thoughts, and one of them you won't like. But it's the only thing I can say about this, considering we're giving minimal information.

1. You've picked the wrong women

2. Sorry to say this, but you're the common denominator in these cases

[Asker]

What more would I have to say to give you information on what would be the problem?

[Little_Bumblebee]

Well, it's easier for someone to say anything if they've known you as a person and seen in depth what has happened in these cases. It's something that in general is difficult for online strangers to give actual thoughts on when we don't know what has happened.

And even if you tell in-depth about everything, it would still be of what you have observed, even though there might have been other reasons for what has happened.

But I am sorry to hear you've had unfortunate experiences with the women you have dated.

[Asker]

Yeah I guess so, my friends didn't know why either and the girls never gave a reason unfortunately, but thanks anyway

[slatyb]

It sounds like you have unreasonable expectations for a new relationship. What specifically has happened?

[Asker]

I don't though, I just want an honest woman who doesn't cheat, that's all I expect, they just stop talking to me, and my ex we dated 6 months and then she cheated and ghosted me

[slatyb]

She "cheated and ghosted you"? Was she seeing someone else while she was pretending to be exclusive with you?

[Asker]

Yes she was

[boggboss]

With the info provided it would seem the women u have picked unfortunately

[Asker]

What more info would you need if it wasn't the women?