PERSONALITY:
First thing: Kindness; how they treat others.
1. (Mandatory) Strictly heterosexual
2. (Mandatory) Strictly monogamous
3. (Mandatory) Politically moderate; not too liberal or conservative
4. (Mandatory) Loyal/faithful
5. (Mandatory) Respectful/classy/ladylike
6. Kind/positive
7. Intelligent
8. Strong sense of humor
9. Strong work ethic
10. Accepting/nonjudgmental
11. Open-minded
12. (Optional) Patient; not easily offended or bothered
13. (Optional) Artistic
14. (Optional) Nerdy; into video games or superheroes
PHYSICAL:
First thing: Her body/height.
15. (Mandatory) Strictly female
16. (Mandatory) Feminine style
17. (Mandatory) Good hygiene
18. Curvaceous; big boobs, big booty, thick thighs, etc.
19. Great smile and good teeth
20. (Optional) Tall: 5'9" to 6'5" (6'2" to 6'5" is ideal)
21. (Optional) Redhead (or strawberry blonde, or blonde)
22. (Optional) Young: Between 20 and 34 (23 to 30 is ideal)
Brown hair and eyes... a great complexion that requires little makeup...
I look at his facial expression, his attitude, his stomach and his hips, cause form hips are a sign of discipline and a tight stomach signifies a youthful metabolism and the face will tell you what type of treatment they want and the attitude tells you their intelligence, like some guys want sympathy while other guys want privacy, some guys want honour and others want loyalty, the face and attitude will tell you what they want.
I think for me it's changed. It's usually the personality that gets me now. I can think that a guy is nice-looking without knowing them, but it will be in the same way I would look at another woman and think she's pretty. I don't actually feel attracted to someone until something about their personality sparks my interest. I tend to like to see some depth before I can even imagine that person as a lover.
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A healthy-looking body is always going to stir up my inner caveman but it's a very shallow type of attraction I tend to have for so many random women I see on the street.
For a deeper attraction, it's always through conversations and interactions with each other. If I feel like I'm connecting and clicking and have some chemistry with a woman, that's when I get truly attracted in a way that goes beyond some random stranger on the street.
I wouldn't say it's about a specific type of personality though since I wasn't looking for anything specific. It's more just about clicking like we seem to really match and seem to really understand each other. One of the most attractive qualities I find is when I can talk to a woman for the very first time and, given the way we communicate, it almost feels like we've known each other for a lifetime. I had that sort of quality with my wife.
Well in every case except for a woman I met for the first time while playing games online, I notice the physical first, and that ideally means a feminine figure, lengthy hair, and casual natural or near-natural beauty. More specific features are usually noticed afterwards. A major detail that sort of bridges both the physical and personal is how a woman carries herself: a confident facial expression, posture and walk goes a very long way.
As far as time goes, physical attraction coming first is almost impossible to avoid. It takes less than one second of looking to create an opinion. That does not mean it’s the most important, though. Things like personality, interests, and beliefs take time to learn, but are in my opinion the most important. (I see that as the entire point of dating — Having fun learning about each other.)
Well you look at the physical first, I like a slim well-toned body and attractive facial features, good eye contact. If they pass that test then you move on to the serious stuff, i. e. personality, are they good-natured, intelligent, GSOH, the stuff that really matters.
When I first met my boyfriend, his height and broad shoulders caught my eyes.
The moment he raised his hand to stop the Taxi for me and I took a good look of his posture, body and V shape, I knew he would become my boyfriend.
I go by physical appearance first, then personality. If I find someone attractive physically, I keep an eye on them, but If I find out they have a terrible personality, they’re gone 😆
I see the overall body first then I look at their eyes as womens eyes are such a turn on for me
You really are gorgeous, if that is a pic of you , of course !! ;) I love your hair , your style ! Your eyes are awesome and looking at your profile , you seems smarter than 99% of the people here !
I like men who have interesting hobbies and are passionate about the things they love...
Even if you are somewhat unattractive, people become attractive when they talk about things they love.
White women
Bi-racial women black white or Latina
Latinas
Indian
Or multi -racial girls
I'm not attracted to a sign girl but I do like mixed Asian girls like white Asian
Weight 110-135
Hair
I like red heads
Or curly hair
Of long jet black
Eye color green, light brown, blue
Height doesn't really matter but I do like taller girls. I'm a taller guy
Personality
Agreeable
Funny
Common sense
Kind
Feminine
If I meet them in person then it's hair, eyes, body form.
If I meet them online their personality (humor, interests), voice
On the physical side, dark hair and dark eyes.
Personality wise, compassion and passion. Warmth and intelligence
Generally the face and body at 1st. Their character is what makes it stick. If your a rotten person count me out,
I'm curious what the girls said because ik I'm self conscious in how I come across to people
What attracts me in men is their personality and that they are loving, kind, and caring. Also their smile and that they know how to make me laugh. Lol ☺️☺️
Well first is her looks, the energy she gives out. So her face basically. Second her body. Third but the most important one is her personality.
Probably their quirky behavior or their stunning body
I'm gay so first thing I get attracted to is the face.
If his face is sexy at first glance, I will explore with my eyes.
Lips, jawline, forehead, skin, and eyes.
A person i can relate to, get to know them. Age or gender do not come into it.
I left physical appearance
Noe I get attracted to inner personalities
Normally the personality is what engages me. You're gonna always notice the looks before anything
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