I'm extremely attracted to fitness women, especially girls with abs and squat bootys but I never attract women who look like that, I'm always getting the attention of weird, frumpy and busted chicks, usually gross girls with ugly tattoos, colored hair or the over the top feminist types who loathe working out (AND I don't exercise every damn day to attract someone like that). I'm nowhere near where I want to be in life - including body-wise - and I'm wondering what I have to do to attract the type of women I'm drawn to.
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Do I have to start taking steroids (or something else extreme) to attract fit chicks?
I think everybody is attracted to fit people with nice bodies. That's just natural. Now that doesn't mean that you have to be perfect, and there are girls who don't necessarily go for the fitness guys. Just like there are guys who go for heavier girls. And for both guys and girls, I think that looks is the first thing you notice, but personality I think it's much more important in the end. I'd take a girl with a great personality and an okay body over a girl with a shity personality and a great body. I'd imagine most girls are the same.
If you think getting jacked as Ronnie Coleman will get you those type of girls, you are wrong. If you want to get those type of girls you have to have an expensive (LEGIT) lifestyle, expensive top end cars, expensive house etc... and everything that upper class society has to offer or you have to look Super manly, warrior type of look, personality and physic and when it comes to having those types of looks, unfortunately you either have it in your genes or you don't.
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Yeah I'm aware that I have to provide the full package aka the expensive/legit lifestyle but I'm wondering if there is any alternatives to circumvent that because I'm miles away from achieving all of that AND I very much doubt if that's even possible for me to achieve.
The only suggestion I can give you is to try, try again and then try some more to speak to those type of girls wherever you get a chance, streets, shopping centers etc... Using dating apps to get those type of girls won't work, unless you are a top 15% percenter. Do it an old fashion way, life approach method and as I said before try and try and try and try...
I think you're right, trial & error is the only way as well as finding ways to increase initial attraction & overall desirability... I'm one of those guys where I'll get opportunities here and there BUT to get what I really want I'm going to have to put in more effort and learn from my past mistakes. Hopefully I can forget all the dumb & moronic BS I learnt from PUA while retaining the important bits and the real world applicable knowledge.
You just said you don't exercise enough to "get someone like that". So how about starting from there, exercising and eating right instead of resorting to drugs.
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You misread what I wrote, I workout everyday BUT it's not good enough (I need to improve my form, adjust my exercises & my diet)... the steroids idea is a joke, I didn't mean it - I just wanted some suggestions for what I could do differently.
Those women are gym rats. If you want to attract them, you need to adopt the gym rat lifestyle. Work out every day. Take supplements and maybe roids. Hang out at the gym with the gym bro crowd. Talk about body development all the time. Best of luck on your journey down that rathole looking for women consumed by body dysmorphia.
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Sadly my workout routine has fell off a cliff over the past few years.
Yea probably bro - they definitely wouldn't like you if you looked like you're weaker than they are (not an insult they look stronger than me too) - unless they're like the extremely rare really like being a dom type - Which is 99% not the case - You'll have to get jacked - Then again they could like dudes who are not that fit if the dude himself is a badass - I'll give that a 40% chance
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I'm pretty strong and look pretty tough, my 2 biggest set backs for fitness is my height and the difficulty I have with developing upper body muscle and a toned stomach, I have frog legs that are very muscular, I can leg press like 500 lbs. Of course I have plenty of other shortcomings besides those BUT I'm just annoyed by how my body looks compared to how athletic I actually am, I've known & seen dude who are ripped and very muscular who had poor endurance and weren't that tough or strong in comparison to me and how average my body looks.
Good honest answer. I highly suggest focusing on the former if that's what you need. Cause women will be more likely to engage with you if they notice you're looking for genuine connection. You can practice with girls you don't wanna have sex with if that's all you can get interested for now. You can train to become better at seeking connections and finding out what you need to offer for them to want the connection. And if you're skilled at that you'll get hotter ones eventually.
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