Why does some guys cheat on their beautiful girl with an uglier girl? What if the beautiful girl can't breakup with him even after knowing the truth?

[Anonymous]

[Anonymous]

Honestly comments like this are so condescending. Maybe you think you’re “more beautiful” but clearly you’re somewhere in the same pool as her, so hop off your high horse for a minute and focus on the situation. You don’t have to tear another woman down to try and make sense of what your man did. She has no loyalty to you and unless she knew about you and still got with him, then he should be the focal point of your anger. He’s ugly inside and that’s enough to make him ugly outside. Not to mention selfish bc rather than have some respect for you and leave, he cheated. That’s uglier than any woman he could destroy your trust with. What’s worse is that you stayed. Love a guy to death but love yourself more.

[Asker]

You may feel the comment "ugly" as negative. But that uglier girl he cheated with knows that he have this beautiful girl and she still encouraged him to cheat on her and he did. This beautiful girl can't be able to leave him because she is having attachment with him deeply. So she can't move on. There is no mistake with her. This is another girl's story and not mine. I simply want to know why he cheated on her despite she is more beautiful that the uglier girl he cheated with. I say her ugly because she broke this beautiful girl's heart for her own fetish desires. This is ugly about her. Comment doesn't always come simply but due to their unforgivable behaviours and it is true that she is not even as much great than this beautiful girl

[Opinion Owner]

“She can’t leave because she loves him deeply”, that’s an excuse my dear, it is also a personal problem. Sounds like “the beautiful girl” (which I feel strongly is you) should learn to love herself more than a man, raise her standards and leave. Also if the “ugly” girl talked him into cheating, yes that is wrong for sure but it STILL takes two to do that, and he did. He’s the one that cheated, not the “ugly” girl. He betrayed his relationship, destroyed the trust, and probably already knows his girlfriend won’t leave. That is sad and would be enough motivation for me to leave. I’m done with the “let’s talk shit on the girl he cheated with” narrative while the guy barely gets any fault. It’s so high school.

[Asker]

The beautiful girl is someone whom I know personally. She says that she loves him deeply. I know she should breakup with him instead she married him already even after telling her to breakup with him. What should she do now?

[Opinion Owner]

You just stay out of it. If she’s content to stay in that situation then that’s her choice and no advice you give will change her mind. The other woman doesn’t have to be attractive or “pretty” to you, but clearly he sees something within her beyond vanity, and if he was going to cheat then it would’ve happened with anyone. So looks just don’t matter.

[Anonymous]

It’s not always about looks, it’s usually more because the other women manages to provide something that the main chick is lacking (it could be affection, emotional support, financial support or simply just sex)

[Fireguy17]

It's not about looks.
You can have someone that is very pretty, but it doesn't mean she is a nice person.
She might treat you like crap.
A person's personality is much more important that looks.
Looks change over time, personalities not so much.
Then all you are left with is someone that was rode hard and put away wet with a bad attitude.
Oh joy.

[daster4442]

for some guys it doesn't matter if she is beatiful or ugly aslong as she a female

[WhitneySnow]

Yeah it happens. Usually cause the guy wants to cheat and can’t find a hot girl to do it with. Why can’t she break up with him?

[Asker]

She loves him deeply

[WhitneySnow]

He sounds toxic and immature

[Nagatoro]

Maybe the more attractive female isn't making the guy happy and he found it elsewhere? Who knows?

[clemdenim]

Not always about looks