Why do most men not put in any effort on dating apps? (Page 3)

[This_Is_My_Opinion8]

I laughed so hard when I saw this question. I haven't scrolled down yet, but I know, I just know what kind of answers you will get here.
Is a fact that guys can't make a decent profile to save their lives. Blame society that doesn't say we are sexual objects and so we don't take proper care in that sense.

[hahahmm]

I've never heard anyone make this point before but it's valid. Wtf should a man have to go out of his way to impress women with stuff like wardrobe for example. 99.999% of what makes a man a man has nothing to do with strutting around.

[Guy13]

Most women on those things are just swiping and messaging to take up free time like I’m doing now. It’s a huge waste of time. More meets and sex from activities and bars than all those apps totaled. It’s a great moneymaker though.

[Honesttguy]

Dating apps dont work for men, so its stupid to invest much effort in things that dont work.
You wouldn't paint and put new tires on broken car.

[TrillXHippy]

Dating apps are trash, having to pay money just to talk to someone is pointless because when you run out of coins you gotta spend more money which will never end, dating apps are trash, a bunch of messages say the same thing word for word baiting you to waste money

[godfatherfan]

And who the fuck are you to judge? Beauty is in the eye of the beholder. I would bet there are plenty that think you are in your lower category. Just because you are snobby, doesn't mean everyone is.

[hahahmm]

And the mistake a lot of women make is acting/being low value when they're young... collecting lots of baggage and not developing an attractive character/personality. Then when they're older they expect dudes to take them MORE seriously than any dude ever took them before. For what? It's insanity.

[Avicenna]

Everyone knows you meet better people IRL. A lot of those online profiles are fakes, catfish, people trying to cheat on partners, people seeking affirmation not a relationship or looking for followers on Insta or Only Fans

[normalice]

It would be like putting effort into selecting numbers for a lottery ticket. Men's success on dating apps seems more luck based than anything men have much control over.

[sheikalana]

Perhaps the guys in your area are not very handsome. Where I live it was also a struggle to find someone decent but I was very persistent and found my husband after a bunch left and right swipes.

[Anonymous]

Most guys don't look good and are not high maintenance like girls. Girls spend a lot of money on grooming for years. Plus guys don't wear makeup and don't take photos everywhere, every time. The once do are professional players who have no job than having sex with women and they are successful in that way.

[aialex]

Heard someone said once, "the ratio men to women is 1:20. We don't have to fight for company but you do"

Shut him up when I said "why would I fight for half-assed like you"

[yofuknutz]

I'm sure your number and name written down some bathroom somewhere nah let me stop playing

[Sour-rose]

Mainly because ladies wanna be a crazy ho. And they're tired. tired of dealing with a crazy bish or catfish. :)

[SolitarySolace]

In my case I'm not actively searching for a partner. That's why I only use bumble when the women are meant to send the first reply and because I know they rarely ever do, I have nothing to worry about.

[SolitarySolace]

Where*

[red324]

You sound like the typical online dating girl. I've been on countless dates with girls and it's always the same story. We go on two dates, three if I'm lucky then she no longer has time anymore because she works all the time and that's the end of it.

[Friendlybro79]

Maybe the effort you speak of should be put into not judging them based on their profile but in real life. If you're going to rely on online dating you might what to just try meeting some of these guys and see if there's more than meets the profile

[KingofCups]

Maybe you should put more effort into interacting with people IRL. Dating apps are really a huge waste of time and energy for most men.

[Anonymous]

It's funny because I heard about Bumble because on there women have to make the first move and now they know what it's like when no on responds back. Tinder is a scam, people looking to hook up. Dating apps are a waste of time and women are always looking for the to 10 percent of men. I can hold conversations, but that doesn't seem to matter at all, but if you like cute girls, date one of them, it's fine.

[Vegasrunner]

You're actually right on par. Studies show that women find only about 20% of men online attractive. It's more a psychological thing than anything else.

[dudeinohio]

Anyone expressing interest in me usually liked me. My conversation was not sexual. I just had normal conversation. I didn't come off as creepy in either my profile or my conversation. I guess this got me ahead of other guys.

[TexasRed95]

People in general are getting more lazy. But also I would guess being burnt out from dating. They probably have had so many that don't go anywhere. But they feel like they need to be with someone. That would be my guess.

[itsalyssaagain]

Because there's a lot of options and they're either sick of putting effort in after being rejected continuously or they're just bored.