What is the future of dating where most men have no option and women have all the power to choose anyone or many ones?

[RV2121]

Dating is harder for men so what is your prediction for future where things are looking bleak for most men.

[devilish-cutie]

I dont see in what way dating is harder for men. As women we constantly fear rape or even murder when trying to eg. meet a guy online.

[RV2121]

Most men get 0 matches online and most matches don't turn in dates so it's harder for men.

The security aspect is true but very few men are actual rapists or murderers and if you meet your date at a public place he won't be able to hurt you.

[devilish-cutie]

Women dont like many guys as they dont find those guys worth the risk. And online dating isn't the only way.
We sure dont think most men are murderes and rapists, but we can't know which ones are. It may all be well in the begining, but then guy can turn to be creep, even like a stalker and such. Too many guys watch porn and become sexual creeps cause of it as well. You guys dont get how it is to be a woman. For us its also harder to have sex as we might get pregnant, risks are higher for us in everything. That is also why we are so picky. And guys nowdays act so immature, they dont make us feel at ease and secure. They want us to be chill and fun. If you had our worries you also wouldn't be chill.

[RV2121]

Yes true online dating is one aspect. Even in real life women have a lot of options to date and they can easily figure out right guy by asking other people about him.

Of course men should make a women at ease but nowadays pill is so cheap that pregnancy is not a huge issue.

I would be a women in a heartbeat if I had a magic wand. Your lives are so much easier and better with huge validation form everyone.

We guys on other hand are lonely without much of a life

[devilish-cutie]

only guys that dont know how it is for women say they would want to be one. from my point of view being a guy seems easier. we have to bleed every month, shave our whole body, constantly make sure we look good and be judge if were not, were constantly sexualized and sexually harassed, we must give birth, we are physicaly weaker and never truly free. you know thats why there is feminism cause we have it so easy and trought history we also had it so easy that we werent even treated as human being but property
one may imagine themselves in ones shoes but only beng in them would show you how it actually is.
i would never take the pill. do you know how many sidefects that has? One of my friends lose her hair, then you can get acne or not be able to get pregnant once you get off it
besides even pill is not 100% sure, no protection is 100%

[RV2121]

Periods may be hard and giving birth is really hard. Making sure you're looking good is optional as not all women put in efforts in that area.

Sexualizing happens because women want to be Sexualized. It's a 2 way street (think Nicki Minaj and cardi B).

Pill has side effects but is very safe. Also if women choose a steady partner then they'll not fear about pregnancy as they're already in a relationship.

Feminism has enabled women to do whatever they want and I'll still want to be a women if I had a magic wand. You have such an amazing social life compared to men

[devilish-cutie]

I dont think men have it easy, i think each of us have their own problems
I hope than you experience to be a woman maybe in next life and see how it is
also transgender is a thing now more accepting

[RV2121]

I can't be a trans as I don't identify myself as that at all. I can't do it.

I don't want a next life but if I get I'll be a woman as things are just handed over to women easily. Men don't get that support in social context