I mean it's gotten to a point of ridiculousness. Lonely men in proportion to guys who actually get girls is insane ! I understand Women don't like to hear this kind of things put it's the simple truth. This is just not a way to justify men who are unlucky with woman its becoming a cold hard reality. Sure sometime these terms are abused, however the fundamental notion is both observable and easily verifiable in-field as well as statistically. This is why sometimes you'll hear from that one girl say "That's not true, my guy friend is like banging 6 different chicks right now" not understanding what their doing is just further proving the point that 20-25% percent of men are getting the lions share of women. Women would rather inanely/indirectly share men, than to actually settle down with a lesser successful attractive male. by (Young Patriarch)Hypergamy is not a thing that is opinion based, "it's reality". Mistakes made mostly by women is that they presumes the goal state outcome of sexual dynamics should be to arrive at a monogamous state. This is the consolidation of a female sexual strategy, and because we live in a feminine-primary social order, that committed, monogamous end to women’s sexual strategy is perceived as the socially “correct” goal. In layman's term women only want to be with men they percieve might bring value in the end sight of a relationship which is understandable. But fucked up. I don't understand why some woman don't like to hear these things because they are true. Words like "Alpha and beta" have become triggerwords. Instead of being Objective, logical and rational. It's getting to a point where at some time in the soon future were going to have a MASSIVE disproportionate number of Sexually frustrated, angry, lonely men in western society. Who want too like women but women want nothing to do with them. And then people wonder why there's a new shooting in the US every other week. It's a sad reality most men live.
Why are there so many Lonely men in today's dating world?
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It has nothing to do with alpha and beta. Lol.
The simple answer is: If men really think they can just be attractive to “some females out there” without taking a shower, without taking care of his hygiene and body, then they couldn’t be further from the truth.
Men who attract females are usually males who know that appearance says a lot about you and your discipline with yourself. Also intelligence and responsibility with school and work scream partner material (wife or husband).
Most men fail to realize that men who take care of themselves aren’t gay necessarily. These are what makes men more attractive. The men who think they’re machos by not taking care of themselves always finish last.
I know far more awful men than awful women. I've seriously considered going lesbian because of how many shitty guys I've met. Women end up having to settle because there just aren't that many good guys around.
Online dating and social media. Women get hit on a lot more than they used to because they are reachable electronically. That's led to a culture where the average woman has set unrealistic standards for herself - where a 6 woman can expect a 10 man. It's led a small number of men receiving way too much male attention and a large number receiving no male attention.
It's not women's fault but it's also not men's fault. It's technology.
I consider myself a 7 at best but I'm tall + educated. I have 1,000+ tinder matches. I think maybe 5-10% of the male population can say this. The majority? No tinder matches. Perfect example.
Also women complain about the shitty men they meet online. That's because those shitty men are in that 10% and they can act that way. They will always have an abundance of women to choose from and don't need to settle.
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