Are most Americans socially very different than the rest of the world?

[andypaul69]

I have met women from many nationalities in my life. Most seem to be normal and interactive. But when it comes to Americans, about 70% of them are into small talks and get annoyed easily when deep conversations take place. Also ghosting is a bigger issue about them than the rest of the world.

by the way not gonna lie, some of them I met are really nice and interesting, but very few in numbers.

I have nothing against Americans as a nationality, it's just that it makes me feel that Americans are socially very different than the rest.

That are my experiences. Feel free to share your opinions.

Yes

No

[alice55]

To what I heard most American are very nice when you just meet them as a first time but it's pretty hard to build real relationship / friendship with them cause they're not very honest.
In France for exemple lots of people are pretty blunt (especially men) and they always complain that you can't discuss anything in-depth with American, also one days they're very nice and the day after they ignore you as if they don't know you.
Not everybody is like that, there's some American with who you can develop great friendship and have meaningful conversation but on average they're more into small talk and acting as if they don't know you the days after.

American think French are rude and not nice cause we don't smile to stranger neither have small talk with them. (some do in the small village like mine but in big city they don't talk to stranger at all).

[andypaul69]

Yes that's exactly true. This is the reason why I generally find it easier to make friends in Europe than in America.

[alice55]

I wonder how is it in UK considering they're usually considered to be more similar to American than European.

[andypaul69]

As per my experience goes, Brits are closer to Europeans than Americans in such things and way more polite than them.

[alice55]

American are rude? I always heard they were nice (like in a fake sense being always nice and smiling all the time).

[andypaul69]

You are right, Americans do have a fake sense of being nice. They are friendly in the beginning but later they start to ignore and ghost, which feels rude to me.

I personally prefer genuine people with no smile raher than someone with a fake one.

All cultures do have some differences, but American culture seems way different to me than the rest of the world.

[Anonymous]

I think your problem is you need to understand American women have big ego's. If you have small talk with them and don't pay homage to them, yeah they're going to get mad. Because the way they see it is there's nothing in it for them.
I think women outside of the United States are much more laid back, not so uptight when it comes to casual exchange.

[andypaul69]

And just to add, most of them don't take care of their health either...

[Opinion Owner]

Yeah well I don't think most of them think long term. When the world is handed to them like most women they assume it's always going to be that way.

[andypaul69]

Immature teenagers masquerading as women. Waste of time and energy.

[Guy13]

We have a whole country of Selfie🤳-driven Narcissist.. especially the women. It’s very difficult to find a good fit in this country. Self…self…self.