How many dates until you should start asking controversial questions?

[Slim57]

Men's and women's rights/abortion/political views etc.

First date

2nd date

3rd date

4th or more

[DizzyDesii]

I want us randomly asking any kinda questions before the date. Thats just me. Im not too big on politics so i dont need to know who they voted for or what party they may be in. I just dont want someone who goes around screaming they hate or support Biden or Trump. Its a turnoff keep to have to hear that political worship as if either of them are God so i prefer they just keep that mess to themselves. I dont care about their deepest views on abortion. All i care is that they’d never ask or expect me to abort no matter the situation. And i really dont want to date a sexist, misogynist nor a hardcore feminist. He can keep all that crap to himself but if he wants to talk about it, it can be at any given moment. I dont count dates. And no matter if i met someone in person or online, I’m going to get to know them verbally and emotionally through phone call for a month before actually agreeing to go on a date or hangout. Im just not going on a date with someone i dont know. A date to me is more so having fun then focusing on asking basic questions that we should’ve asked before the date. So Once we go on the date, im not looking to ask questions. I’m looking to have fun doing whatever activity we have chosen (movie, beach, paintball, etc.). I just want to see how much i enjoy their company, if there's physical chemistry, and if the kiss at the end of the day has sparks. If it does, then by that next day, we could ask eachother if we wanna be boyfriend/girlfriend. All the other dates will then just come naturally at any given moment as we continue our relationship.

[just_a_potato]

I feel like the first date is just about you two not controversial outside topics. Get to know if you like the person without all that first. On the second date when you know you want to see them again, is for the POV questions. At least to me.

[HighValue]

If you met them online I'd ask them those kinds of question before even going out on a first date so we don't waste our time on someone that we aren't compatible with.

Plus if you get to see their past online posts, you can somewhat tell how they think depending on how much they post. Then you can tell if they are just telling you what they think you want to hear, or if they already had those beliefs before they ever met you.

[MCheetah]

Second date. First one is just to see if you like each other or not, and you don't want to ruin things with stuff like politics if you do. Second date is when you bring up politics and religion to see if you should continue things further.

[Nigjt]

I my self do not wait at all I put it out their right away.
Now how controversial ur conversation may go is up to u an that person so u may need to ask them if it's ok to talk to him or her about such befor doing so.
Ok now here something else if she or he has a mouth full of u u just may wsit until thay can speak lol.
God Bless

[exitseven]

I would go for 3rd date to find out if she us a liberal.

[jahaims]

It's not a set number. You have to read the room. I would say once you both decide you are interested in being in a relationship.

[Fromdusktilldawn]

Depends, it can turn very easy into a fight when talking about political views with me

[LazerBean]

First date. Why waste your time?

[CloudMassacre]

Just feel it out and go with the vibe

[Joker_]

whenever it comes up naturally

[WhitneySnow]

Third date