How do you think women will adapt as more men wake up to the fact that waiting for women after their done with Chad Thundercock is a bad deal?

[Anonymous]

This dating coach gave her best fit forward as to why women would actively chase men who treat them badly in their youth and then later on in life will want the good guy to take care of her and commit to her long term.

Now, if she had made this 10-15 years ago most men would have eaten this up and think she was giving sound advice and they "win" in the end because they get the girl. However, the comment sections most men were vocal that what she said was horse shit and it's not winning getting the girl later in life after she has squandered her youth on other men and is now more emotionally/mentally screwed in the head.

Given more men are waking up to not being a woman's safety net when she's done with the men she finds most attractive, how do you think future women will adopt to this change? How do you think women of younger generation changed their strategy in dating when they see the fall out of a large sample size of women of this generation ending up either single mothers or childless with cats?

[WonderBell99]

I’m sorry, but it doesn’t seem like you’ve gone out and actually spoken to women.

i have never once “chased” any man in my life and never will.. it should be mutual. Nobody should chase anyone. That’s now how mature, adult relationships work. I will make the first move on a guy, but if he is not interested, then I will leave him alone because I am a decent person who has self respect; and I don’t want to harass anyone either

Lets face it, EVERYONE would like to date the hottest, friendliest person in the room. That’s how dating works. How could you date someone you don’t find attractive?

These women who chase bad men, usually men who don’t respect them have low self esteem and probably an abusive childhood or some sort of a trauma which comes with having a lack of a good parental figure. Not all women are the same.

I don’t want a guy who has abs or whatever.. i want a guy who’s healthy, fit, has a good hygiene and cares about me.

Women like her don’t represent all of us.. heck, I’ve gotten rejected twice and I’d like to think I’m at least decently attractive.

[Asker]

age 17. I see you and @kaneki05 are high fiving each other. Oh the deluded fool thinks doing this will get him a girlfriend someday.

[WonderBell99]

Uh what? I don’t get what you’re going off about. We are mere acquaintances.

And for the record, he is not a fool. The deluded person here is you.

[Asker]

You are in your youth and peak of your beauty of course you will have the bravado of never chasing a man. When you are on the wrong on 30's and 40's that will change. Often easy to puffy out your chest when you are in a position of power in dating.

[WonderBell99]

How sweet of you. Thank you for saying that I’m pretty. I really needed to hear this today.

[Kaneki05]

I do like that part "If we leave them they will end up alone" yeah... that makes sense when there is millions of average to nice guys who are single. Lol. But Yeah I only watched a couple mins because honestly who cares?
And why do you and this guy making the video care so much about what this one woman is saying? Is she the embodiment of all women in the world and that important we must go out of a way to argue with her because it will change our lives? Not so much.

[Asker]

the numbers are getting smaller each day as more men wake up to it being a bad deal.

[Kaneki05]

Getting smaller of what? And wake up to what? A guy doing videos of some women on the internet while making other's stay in a bubble echochamber that only those women exist? when in fact they make up a very small number of women on the planet?
Sounds like you need to watch something better and get on with your life. lol.

[Asker]

oh i see your one of those guys still asleep. Nvm. You'll wake up some day buddy to the how dating/relationships actually are.

[Kaneki05]

I've got better things to do but thanks. You keep wining about how dating/relationships you are while watching boring videos meanwhile I'll carry on my life doing other things. :)

[WonderBell99]

@Kaneki05 Well said!

[Anonymous]

Why do you think older women are jaded and bitter? Some are really crazy. Their beauty has faded and now they are cougars on the prowl. But this will never change.