"Men are ugly in favor of being utilitarian. Women are weak in favor of being beautiful."
That's a pretty direct way of saying it, and it's going to trigger some people, but you are essentially correct. The truth can be harsh, especially for those who aren't used to hearing it.
Many guys who are getting sex ARE those things - but it's a poor long-term strategy, I agree.
Speaking as a guy who CERTAINLY doesn't have the looks to get anything on that basis, she's not wrong in saying that guys need to look at OTHER things that women value - things that ARE achievable for most men. Money is one of those things, though I don't recommend simply trying to buy a girl's love or attention. You CAN, in the short term, do this, but it won't work out in the long run. Rather, look at the other things most women find attractive.
Most women find men who are confident, competent, intelligent, and dominant attractive, even if they say otherwise. If you have a skill or hobby that is artistic (art/drawing, music, writing, photography, etc.), many women find that very attractive. And it never hurts to be in shape, or to dress a notch (sometimes two) better than the other people around you. Finally, if you are outgoing and especially if you are funny, most women will find that attractive.
You can't make yourself pretty, but you can compensate for your lack of beauty by having strengths in a number of those other areas that women care about and value, and you can still maximize the limited looks you do have.
@Anonymous So a man is useless unless he's serving a woman? Got it. If there was ever a recruitment tool for men to become proud incels, this would be it.
Well and guys who DO are generally viewed as less masculine. Or I know many who if they are fit, do their hair well, and have a strong fashion sense, people will assume they aren't into girls.
@OpenClose women still tend to find these guys more attractive women aren’t generally attracted to really masculine men and I don’t know if I totally agree with that assumption u can have a hyper masculine look and still put a fair amount of effort into ur appearance.
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It’s the behaviour and conduct of a lot of men to be honest. It’s rare to find a man who has pure intentions and a kind heart.
I haven't exactly had a very easy time finding a woman with pure intentions and a kind heart either.
@Juxtapose maybe you’re looking in the wrong place
Where do I look then?
@Juxtapose your guess is as good as mine
It's physical and financial being the main drivers for that. If your personality sucks, then you're gonna always be unattractive
because there are too many women with carolines mindset today
Men aren't doing anything wrong, that's just how women operate. They only like a very small percentage of men. She is settling otherwise.
Is there anything we men need to improve on as a gender bro
No, if anything we need to stop giving women all this validation and let them know their real value.
What is their real value
Depends on the woman, but overall they aren't as special as they think they are.
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I’ve always found this odd because growing up I was taught it was the other way around.
Nothing can be done. Men are ugly in favor of being utilitarian. Women are weak in favor of being beautiful.
So we are just supposed to accept that we are ugly?
Yep.
Is there anyway for a guy to get a glow up at all?
https://youtu.be/LkLH_5ErxqY
Be more useful?
"Men are ugly in favor of being utilitarian. Women are weak in favor of being beautiful."
That's a pretty direct way of saying it, and it's going to trigger some people, but you are essentially correct. The truth can be harsh, especially for those who aren't used to hearing it.
We are not sex toys or wallets ma’am
Did I say sex or money? You can be useful in other ways.
What ways? Name a couple
Home repairs, yard work, child care, auto repair, cooking, cleaning, taking out the trash, etc.
"We are not sex toys or wallets ma’am"
Many guys who are getting sex ARE those things - but it's a poor long-term strategy, I agree.
Speaking as a guy who CERTAINLY doesn't have the looks to get anything on that basis, she's not wrong in saying that guys need to look at OTHER things that women value - things that ARE achievable for most men. Money is one of those things, though I don't recommend simply trying to buy a girl's love or attention. You CAN, in the short term, do this, but it won't work out in the long run. Rather, look at the other things most women find attractive.
Most women find men who are confident, competent, intelligent, and dominant attractive, even if they say otherwise. If you have a skill or hobby that is artistic (art/drawing, music, writing, photography, etc.), many women find that very attractive. And it never hurts to be in shape, or to dress a notch (sometimes two) better than the other people around you. Finally, if you are outgoing and especially if you are funny, most women will find that attractive.
You can't make yourself pretty, but you can compensate for your lack of beauty by having strengths in a number of those other areas that women care about and value, and you can still maximize the limited looks you do have.
I guess I can be a woman’s handyman and hopefully get promoted to husband after I do a few repairs
Look at my profile picture, I'm utilitarian and beautiful xD
@Anonymous
So a man is useless unless he's serving a woman? Got it. If there was ever a recruitment tool for men to become proud incels, this would be it.
You gotta understand all women are born bi or lesbians
beside only 5% of women look pretty without makup
hence why 95% of women wear makeup
No. Men are not the problem, female entitlement and delusion is.
lol The fact that women don’t find any man most attractive. So weird.
Yeah. Now you know how we feel.
You got a great point. I think its been shown that 70% of women tend to flock to the elite 10% of men
Men don’t put much effort into their appearance in general.
Well and guys who DO are generally viewed as less masculine. Or I know many who if they are fit, do their hair well, and have a strong fashion sense, people will assume they aren't into girls.
@OpenClose women still tend to find these guys more attractive women aren’t generally attracted to really masculine men and I don’t know if I totally agree with that assumption u can have a hyper masculine look and still put a fair amount of effort into ur appearance.
because all women are secretly gay
AMEN
I knew it! Finally the truth comes out! 🤣
She just exposed the entire operation DEFCON 1 in this bitch
Women care about money and power so a male is only attractive if he has those things.
Feminist is the answer to your question
most men are unattractive
Many many things