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Is this just sex (friends with benefits) a casual relationship or possibly something more?

  • This guy I’m seeing told me he’s not looking for a LTR after our first date. I said ok and we set up a second date. On our first date we just talked a lot it was nice. Our second date we made out and cuddled a lot. (Both times we hung out we had dinner) He offered to go to the bedroom but I declined…this happened about 2/3 times. It wasn’t in a pushy way it was just when things were getting more intense. Hope that makes sense. He was respectful about it and didn’t seem to be mad or annoyed. For the rest of the night we just cuddled talked and kissed more. It was quite romantic. A lot of eye contact, playing with each other’s hands, interlocking fingers, forehead kisses, rubbing my hands with his fingers, he even played with my ear at one point, and he complimented me a lot too, which was really nice. So what I’m getting at is if he just wants something casual isn’t all this LTR stuff? I was expecting making out but not all the intimacy. Not saying I don’t want it I really do but it just caught me by surprise. Im not going to bring this up to him well at least not now it’s too early to have the what are we talk. Im just trying to figure out when and if I should put out. I like him a lot but if he doesn’t feel the same then I’ll just move on. If anyone has some insight/advice that could help me figure out what I should do next I’d appreciate it.
Is this just sex (friends with benefits) a casual relationship or possibly something more?
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