Why do I lose interest in a crush so fast?

[Anonymous]

This happens a lot with girls I like. I will be on and off with liking and not liking. I've done this with some girls in the past. Luckily I haven't told them I liked them or anything or else I would be hurting emotionally a lot of girls. but is inexperience with dating? Like I find myself liking 5 girls at once sometimes. The worst part is I make it so obvious I like them. I wave at the girl whenever they pass by. Like usually it is at work and it could be their 4th time passing by and it is my 4th time waving. Well, either obvious I like them or obvious I am weird lol. Like all my friends say it looks like I like the girl.

[CrazyGirl2]

Wow, that’s a LOT of questions you packed in there! Ok, why the constant change in crushes? In short you are a guy, you’ll always find other women attractive. That doesn’t mean that you will constantly change girlfriend’s, it just means that even when you have a girlfriend, you’ll still think other women are attractive. As for why you wave at girls a lot, I don't know but it can be very creepy, so yeah, stop doing that! As for your inexperience in dating… anyone reading this already knows. Sweetie, you just need to have enough self confidence to just ask a girl out, and not be embarrassed or heartbroken if she says no! Nobody’s entitled to my time of affection, but if one girl says no, then ask another. Remember lotts of girls have crushes too! So look for that girl who is always looking at you, or smiling at you, or I don't know, a girl who waves at you! Look for those girls, and ask THEM out!

[Asker]

Ok Ok you're right. I def need to stop waving at girls. I mean most girls that have noticed it laugh about it and make fun of it in a joking way but I don't want to get a restraining order against me because of it if some girl in the future takes it too far or gets scared lol. Like I guess the only reason I don't have much self-confidence is my stutter but that is a whole different story weirdly I stutter less around girls than guys. Also when it comes to talking to girls I can talk all day with them but if it is about me liking them I can't

[CrazyGirl2]

Then good, if you don’t shutter in front of girls, then there’s nothing stopping you from just looking for girl who looks at you, then touches her hair, or who smiles at you, or even waves, over, and over, and over, and…. 😀 jk.