Girl's Behavior 
Guy's Behavior 
Flirting 
Dating 
Relationships 
Fashion & Beauty 
Health & Fitness 
Marriage & Weddings 
Shopping & Gifts 
Technology & Internet 
Break Up & Divorce 
Education & Career 
Entertainment & Arts 
Family & Friends 
Food & Beverage 
Hobbies & Leisure 
Other 
Religion & Spirituality 
Society & Politics 
Sports 
Travel 
Trending & News 
You were 75 pounds overweight and got rejected by a crush. You lost the weight and now they are interested. Do you give them a chance? (Page 2)
Ask to an AI Persona
Laura
Have questions about GirlsAskGuys? I'm here to help!
James The Foodie
From savoring Italian classics to discovering the bold flavors of Japanese cuisine, I explore...
Travel Buddy
I'm your go-to travel companion, passionate about exploring new destinations and experiencing...
Love Doctor Brad
Welcome to the heart of understanding and transformation. I am your guide on this journey to...
Advisor Smith
With years of experience guiding individuals in their education and career paths, I'm here to...
Fashionista Amy
I'm here to inspire and guide you with a touch of latest trends or advice on personal style.💅👒
Gamer Bella
With my passion and experience in hobbies and leisure activities, I'm here to offer personalized...
Cinematic Lily
With my rich background and passion for the arts, I share insights on films, TV shows, and...
Athletic Chloe
Whether you need tips on improving your game, insights on fitness and nutrition, or just want to...
Click "Show More" for your mentions
Most Helpful Opinion(mho) Rate.
Learn more
Learn more
We're glad to see you liked this post.
You can also add your opinion below!
What Girls & Guys Said
Opinion
54Opinion
You look great! I do prefer the before picture as far as sexual attractiveness. in my opinion
Depends on whether I still like them.
Nope. Tough titty said the kitty
As long as they didn't gain 75 lbs or whatever.
Definitely not. Lol
I would not
Hell no. I don't do second chances.
No. If they don’t deserve me at my worst, then they don’t deserve me at my best. ✋🏽
Most arrogant cliche statement every created
Nah, only facts.
What facts. When do they ever get you at your best? If you're overweight now why would that ever change? Sounds like people should be just stuck with your worst forever.
You didn’t get my point, but that’s okay. My point was that you should go back and be like “Hey, I like you now.” just because a person lost weight and it was for themselves. There’s more to a person than just their weight, you know.
Shouldn’t go back*
I am basically saying that I wouldn’t give them a chance. Anyway goodbye for now.
what is the difference in a person now seeing you in a different light? Someone who is now attracted to you? If someone out of the blue came up to you and didn't know you lost weight and was interested that is okay but just know that same person would probably not be attracted to the other you who was heavy so there is really no difference.
Not a chance
Why is that?
They rejected me, that's all I need to move on, obviously they're only in it for appearances too
Not a chance he is history to me.
No, if they don't want me at my worst, they are unworthy of me at my best.
Most arrogant cliche statement ever created
It's your opinion. I'm not going to simp for someone just because Im suddenly attractive to them. I'm not going to simp for someone when they only find me attractive because I lost weight. If they are so incredibly shallow that my weight is a deal breaker, it tells me the exact kind of person they are, and I don't need that in my life.
Oh and coach.. The votes agree with me.
It's not shallow to not want to date someone who is overweight and unhealthy. It's called standards. Thanks for participating.
No. But it is shallow to suddenly be interested once the weight is gone. You're not going to win this one.
Most FAT people know it's not shallow for someone not to be physically attracted to them. Most fat people wouldn't date someone who was FAT like them because they understand how attraction works. Nobody should have to settle on someone who they aren't attracted to.
You're missing the point. So I'm just going to say this. It's not about the fat part... It's suddenly being interested after losing the weight. If that's the one element, that's not strong ground for a relationship. Read this slowly. I agree with you and the preference. Read it again.. I AGREE WITH YOU.. I just disagree with the idea that it's OK to be with someone if that's literally the only thing keeping them from being interested.
" I just disagree with the idea that it's OK to be with someone if that's literally the only thing keeping them from being interested."
This happens everyday. Someone could be in shape, good looking and have a great job but not have a good sense of humor. So is that being shallow as well or is that just simply wanting someone who has a great sense of humor? Preferences and standards is what it comes down too.
And you can't just suddenly be interested.. It probably took them 6 months or more to lose that weight. So overtime you start to see them in a different light, attraction builds and that doesn't just happen suddenly. Thanks for the comments!
Welcome
Nope they are too judgmental.
Yeah, why not.
Depends on our history
I'd phuck her and move on.
Hell no and fuck her
No they should like you for the inside
Nope.
nope
No way.
Nope I would not
Lol how come?
Duh OF COURSE
Depends.
Nope
Snooze you lose