I told my fiance (28m) that my family who I recently united with said I got really thin. He said "Good." To me, that indicated that he thinks I should lose more weight. I have been working out consistently for months and my fiance has not complimented my appearance since I started. The first few times he saw me naked he called me sexy. After that he would tell me he plans to make both of us fit in the future. Recently he said it again, "I promise to make sure both of us are fit one year into marriage." He recommended a workout routine for my legs. He told me if I feel burn or pain to keep going. After I did the workout he recommended he texted "Good job." My concern is that he does not tell me that I am making physical improvement or looking better. Instead he says "Good" when people say I look smaller. He also frequently checks out women in front of me. He told me he saw a poster that showed a pageant queen who was serviced by my waxing provider. He smirked and said "She was in a bikini." I looked at him and he said "I was waiting for you to react." My fiance says he has much to lose in his belly area. He is ashamed of his belly fat. Is he projecting? Why would he let me know he checks out women and does not compliment me on my own body? Am I expecting too much?
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