Im a guy , my first friends with benefits?

[Anonymous]

I will just cut the whole story and state the main points

I’m a guy i have a new friends with benefits and I have not met her physically. I met her through tinder. She told me she is looking for a new friends with benefits cuz she ended her previous friends with benefits relation.

She ask if I could sleepover at her place and she said she is going to fetch me. Is it safe to do so for my own safety? Maybe like she could drug me or maybe trying to kidnap. Ever since she ask me that question I can’t think about who to consult 🤦‍♂️ I need some help

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The main point is IS IT SAFE FOR A GUY TO SLEEPOVER AT friends with benefits PLACE?

[Anonymous]

Yeah, definitely not safe.

If u both didn't even have a facetime call nor anything... It's even more dangerous.

If she sent you some selfie of herself, use "Search Google for this image", so u can maybe know if she's a catfisher.

But if u want to meet her regardless, then meet in a public place and let some friend of yours that u trust know where you're going.

So if something happens, you're prepared.

[Asker]

I’ve checksearch Google by image nothing comes out , is just bunch of saloon pictures with her hair colour I use a picture of her face

[Opinion Owner]

Well, then at least seems like she's not using someone else's selfie

[WhitneySnow]

Meet her in public first. She might be crazy or lying about who she is.

[Avicenna]

friends with benefits should be with someone you know and are comfortable with, not a total stranger, and you shouldn’t spend the night at her place without knowing her at least a bit. You’re right to be concerned that a woman would want to do this with a total stranger, and this may also be a catfish.

Id advise you’ve turn her down. At best, who knows how many other men she’s done this with.

[AviatorTom]

Since you don't know her, it's good to be safe. I suggest your first meeting be in a neutral place... a hotel room. She may just trying to be safe herself by controlling the location of the first meeting, but it could be somethign else.

[Guy13]

Meet her at a public place, get a Vibe (Creepy or not), and then decide if you want to further the encounter. Spend an hour together over 🍸 or 🍻 . Liquid courage too, you know 😎. Good luck 🍀, Stud muffin…

[NNWSSEnew]

You know what I have feelings it's been a thing you have to have truth within yourself and trust yourself to make another decision. You asked girls and ask guy, no for you. Get to know them a bit better.

[Anonymous]

Run as fast as you can.

[Iron_Man]

That’s not a good lifestyle

[Waldoe]

sounds weird... be careful

[Anonymous]

Yeah, but proceed cautiously.