I’m a female that will be 27 this year. I am embarrassed about being single and never asked on a date. How can I stop being insecure and embarassed? (Page 3)
Have you done the approaching and got turned down?
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Hmm, have I had the help of my mom in inviting a few guys to my house and then get ignored completely? Yes. One guy went out to eat with us, and he wouldn’t even look at me…I was sad, but he was a little strange around girls. There was a girl who chased him a bit and eventually he dated her but then they broke up and she got married to a guy that was chasing her for 3 years. Moral of the story: if a guy chases a girl, it’s more likely to end in a long term relationship or marriage. If a girl does the chasing, either the guy will be turned off, or not value her enough. I actually did tell one of my guy friends I liked him after his girlfriend broke up with him and he told my brother “nice, I got options.” Needless to say, though several months later he said he wanted a relationship, 4 days later, he changed his mind and went out with his other girl friend who didn’t like him. I was angry, but I decided I didn’t want to talk to him anymore- he couldn’t really commit to me and didn’t treat me like a priority- just an option- so I stopped talking to him.
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You have nothing to be ashamed of you seem like a normal girl to me ans you come across pretty cool and laid back
you are ukranian girl. you are lucky. and you are young. where are you live?
Where are you live?
In the US
You can find a boy. You can speak with boys in usa. Or in instagram
If you are not 50 years old, no problem
I am seeking a woman just like you. I am wanting a woman where we can be each other's first real relationship. Pm me if you will.
Really 27? What's the rush its so young. I only just found a decent guy now and I'm 29
I have a similar problem. I hope you find your guy.
Don’t be embarrassed
try christian dating sites or mission work.
Don't worry about it. You've got this
Have you done the approaching and got turned down?
Hmm, have I had the help of my mom in inviting a few guys to my house and then get ignored completely? Yes. One guy went out to eat with us, and he wouldn’t even look at me…I was sad, but he was a little strange around girls. There was a girl who chased him a bit and eventually he dated her but then they broke up and she got married to a guy that was chasing her for 3 years. Moral of the story: if a guy chases a girl, it’s more likely to end in a long term relationship or marriage. If a girl does the chasing, either the guy will be turned off, or not value her enough. I actually did tell one of my guy friends I liked him after his girlfriend broke up with him and he told my brother “nice, I got options.” Needless to say, though several months later he said he wanted a relationship, 4 days later, he changed his mind and went out with his other girl friend who didn’t like him. I was angry, but I decided I didn’t want to talk to him anymore- he couldn’t really commit to me and didn’t treat me like a priority- just an option- so I stopped talking to him.
Ask a man to go out.
U should try approaching guys a little bit maybe?
Don't worry, Your still only young.
beta advice.
@Lookingforthetruth What do you mean?
I like your type. Let's chat
Don't over think be bossy and dob what u want
You’ll find love 😊