Tell her I am flattered but sorry I am already committed to someone else. The same way I expect my Girlfriend to respect me if she was encountered by a hot guy. When I was younger and this situation happened to me , I did end up cheating and having sex with the other girl to realize how much of a piece of shit I was for doing it , cuz after the fact I felt horrible that I did that to the girl I was committed to , it was a learning experience to never do it again. i confessed to my Girlfriend that I cheated on her and that I understand if she wants to end things with me , She cried to me and I felt even worse , I hated myself for being such a piece of shit, It was a tough cookie to swallow but I realized my Girlfriend deserved better even though I didn’t want to lose her , I realized it was selfish of me to expect her to forgive me , so we went are separate ways. From that day forward I have never cheated on another girl I committed to , I realized Love only grows when 2 people remove selfishness for each other , What I did to her was a selfish decision , if you can’t remove selfishness for your partner you have no right being in a committed relationship with someone , you are wasting your time , partners that cheat and get away with it and lie to their partners face are wasting their time , you truly don’t love someone if you can cheat on them , don’t kid yourself Except the fact that you are a piece of shit , I understand so many people cheat and have affairs and most people can’t admit to themselves that they are a piece of shit , and even though cheating is one of the worst things to do to someone be honest about it and let your partner move on , Going back to them like nothing happened makes you even more of a piece of shit is the way I look at it , if you truly loved them you wouldn't be cheating on them , and if you cared about them you would let them go and let them go find true love because by lying to their face just shows you don’t truly love them. We are all imperfect people and we all did stupid shit , But one thing I realized in myself is just be honest and accept the fact that you can only choose your own path , if someone chooses to cheat on you that’s something they have to live with and the consequences they have to deal with , never blame yourself for someone cheating on you , it’s a selfish decision they chose to do. All we can do in a relationship is give the same way we want to receive. , If your partner chooses to be selfish then realize you can be selfish as well , if they can’t sacrifice for you then you sure as hell can’t sacrifice for them. Don’t commit to someone that you know you can’t really commit to , you are just wasting your time , if you like having sex with multiple people then just stay single , playing with peoples hearts just makes you a piece of shit.
I'd investigate her and her motives. Some chicks LOVE to break up happy relationships and then dumo the guy or other evil things. If I smell anything fishy, I'd tell her off. But if she's genuinely interested in me, I'd reflect on if my current girlfriend is really better for me. If my current girlfriend is good for me or my soul mate, then who cares if a hot chick likes me? I'd let her down gently. But if my current girlfriend is not great, I'd have to breakup with her whether or not I choose to pursue the new girl.
if you have true feelings for your girlfriend you should know the answer.
I don't know you or your situation, but think about it honestly. Is one night with any girl, no matter how "hot" they are worth throwing away the emotional connection you have with your girlfriend?
Also if you say yes, then your telling any future relationship (cause the minute your girl finds out if she has any self respect she gonna leave you) that you can't be trusted behind her back.
Not telling you what to do, just saying think with the head on your shoulders (not the one in your pants) before you make a choice.
Break up with your girlfriend. Tell her a 'hot girl' wants you.
Have sex with the 'hot girl.'
Hot girl walks away and moves onto next 'hot guy.'
Spend many months trying to understand what you just did, and how stupid you could be to choose looks and temporary pleasure over a friend, partner, and companion in life. Live and learn.
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Do you love your girlfriend? If yes, then you know the answer…
You need more than beauty to attract a guy, you also need his respect, and guys don’t respect people who sleep with them while not in a relationship.
Side piece if she keeps her mouth shut lol
Back when I was still dating, a few other girls from my college did approach me and told me I was hot. They never directly asked me out but they gave me all the necessary signals to know that they were interested in me and wanted to take things up a notch. Do you know what I did?
No, I didn't hook up with the other girls, nor did I cheat on my girlfriend! I stayed with her and rejected them because that's what a good boyfriend does! Unless this was a joke question, you need serious help, my dude.
If you actually have to ask this question , it means your relationship with your girlfriend has no long term potential. You might as well just cheat on her and break up with her. Because your relationship won't last either way, even if you didn't cheat. Only the strongest relationships last.
Guys will not physically cheat right away. But they’ll secretly message the hot girl first just for attention and self esteem boost. Then check in on her and become her fuck buddy, just to test the waters. And if the hot girl is still waiting for the guy to leave his girlfriend…well, it’s a gamble. But overall it’s just typical guy behavior using more than one girl in life.
I would try to pork her. If successful I'd try to pork her and my girlfriend at the same time. If that worked out I'd try to make a porn video where I porked both of them plus one extra friend from each of them. I'd make a internet site so the world could view this fivesome (me and four chicks) and comment on our performance. I'd add new videos to this site and star hot new ho's weekly.
I’d stay with my girlfriend, respectfully tell the other girl that I’m in a relationship and hopefully she leaves me alone after that. If she continues, I’ll be more direct in me not wanting to accept whatever intimacy she’s offering or wanting from me.
Stay loyal to my girlfriend. I strongly believe in cherishing the one you have and treating her with respect.
Many women or girls will come along but if you can't commit to your relationship just because a hot girl came along, you are most likely doomed to be single for ever.
It sounds harsh, but cheating and hoping from one relationship to another, is easy and addictive and can be destructive too.
I guarantee that if I'm actively seeing a girlfriend, that I think she's "hot" too, so simply crossing paths with another "hot girl" isn't going to convince me to betray her (ever) and won't be enough to convince me to leave, either. Looks alone have never won me over, even when I was younger and dumber.
i have been the other girl..
the guys break up with me and go out with her..
worst, we were sitting on a first date at the food court waiting for a movie to start. Sexy hot chick walks up, flirts with my date, tells him she wants him, why is he with his Sister, and he dumped me right there!
From experience... You cannot jump from girlfriend to girlfriend. The message you send to all your future partners is that you can't be trusted, and believe me while that doesn't mean much now, wait until you meet that 1 special woman that you'd literally give up your entire world for - only for her to know your history and that puts her off.
This has happened to me 3 times since I've been with my girlfriend
The first time I cheated. Bad choice.
The 2nd time I almost cheated, but changed my mind. Better choice.
And the 3rd time I was just rude to the girl so she'd lose interest. Another bad choice.
It hasn't happened in a few years now that I'm actually mature enough to deal with it like an adult, but I guess women just aren't attracted to guys who finally have their shit together
As easy as this! You tell her: sorry! I am taken 🤷♂️. But we could hangout and be friends if you want to. I have been doing this for almost 14 years and i have some hot female friends, it's all good
I was approached by another girl at the club while standing with my then girlfriend and friends. Turned out to be an acquaintance from years back only now she was gorgeous. Introduced her to my girlfriend and friends it was just friendly conversation.
After she left my girlfriend was bitchy and jealous. My friend didn’t help by making comments like she wanted to jump my bones just to bug her. The two started swearing at each other while I stood there wanting to go home.
Make sure she's serious and its not a "power play" by her.
If you're sure it isn't, consider whether the possibility of a worthwhile relationship with her is worth ending your relationship with your current girlfriend.
It happens a lot. The grass isn't always greener.
If you have to ask this question you're not ready for a relationship. So question, what would you do if a hot guy wants your girlfriend but you're her boyfriend?
Either break up and get with the new one or reject her. What do you want more, go with that.
Remember, she can leave you just as easily for the better guy. What do you value more, looks or loyalty?
There's a saying that goes something like... if you're currently in a relationship but you fall for someone else... leave the current person you're with because it's obvious you don't belong there.
That's like asking if it's better to work somewhere where you're getting paid every day or to steal the $400 out of the register.
Kinda only hurting yourself.
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