I suggest you ask him how often he drinks, with the implication that he should cut back a bit. He might have a problem, or he might be so nervous that only that "liquid courage" can get him to approach you. Either way, you are likely doing him a favor.
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No. You must marry him. Everyone knows the fourth time is the lifetime... HA!
First off you can cut anyone out of your life anytime you wish. You don't need permission to take out the trash. You're 26, your life ahead of you. Why would you waste time with a 38 year old drunk? Clearly he is unhappy with himself and has piles of problems that you don't need. Be good to yourself before anyone else. If you continue on with this person you'll find much sooner than you think that you're 38, drinking too much and acting like a fool. CUT HIM OFF! NOW
There’s a reason why he’s 38 going for much younger and it’s most likely because he has a bigger issue going on that women his age will not put up with
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Just another woman who knows how to pick the best men out of her ten thousand options.
You have no obligation to be near anyone that makes you uncomfortable. If you don't like it, there's nothing you owe this person. Do whats best for you, and be unapologetic about it.
No, you are required to continue to date him It's the law, after 4 dates of you recognizing that he's a piece of shit you have to marry him
It's your life!! Your choice! Why do you need permission?
As long as you're talking about severing the relationship (such as it is) and not his penis, yes of course you can.
You need permission from anonymous strangers on social media?
Wow.Do you have free Will?
walk away... and fast
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