Happy that there are still many women with rational thought and not just blatant misandry, I personally don't hold importance in body features but still won't date a fat woman as it speaks for her personality and care for her health.
Why should it matter if the woman is short? Why would it be any different for a tall woman to do it?
Frankly, rejecting someone on the basis of height or weight is ridiculous and not going to lead to good outcomes. One or the other is not "ok" for that matter.
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Of COURSE it's okay for a man to turn down a woman because of her weight. What are you even talking about? Do you see more high-value guys with overweight women or with fit to average women? Why do you think that is?
Because they're more likely to turn down the fat ones.
Just a double standard, I personally don't mind either everyone has their own preferences in life, but just don't come off as being mean men and women.
women turn down men because they are too fat also but for myself, I am very active with outdoors so if I want to share that with someone a need to have someone that is the same health wise as me and be kind of a tomboy type
@d3n0939 penis and vagina are not the same things either. What is her point? Weight is not height therefore according to her men are irrational for caring about women's weight. Lol
@d3n0939 Nonsense? Seriously why is common sense bypassing people like you?
The point was it’s normalized to pick apart parts of both genders that doesn’t even equate to the same things. Supposedly a woman’s weight and guy’s height is a huge deal and seen on the same level of importance just as sex and money is always compared—> “I spend money on you so you owe me sex”. That doesn’t make sense. It should be “I spend money on you so spend money on me”.
Of course no one is entitled to anyone’s money or body for sex but it would make much more sense to equate things to what they correlate with
Of course he can ask. The point of getting to know someone is asking questions but acting as if both things are equivalent doesn’t make sense
Then you mentioned getting turned down, a negative, for two things that are completely different
I will ask a man what’s his height AND weight because in one person it’s important and you’ll get an idea of their shape but one asking about weight and the other asking about height is just weird, what if a short or tall woman was over or underweight? He would think she’s fine because he doesn’t know her height
He would ask her height too. Many guys asked me how much I weigh and how tall I am. They want to know my height so they can see if I am slim, underweight or overweight. How asking his height makes more sense than him asking her weight?
I can't really judge women irl grom what i see here cause I know most the ones on GaG don't go outside and grew up in sheltered & weird households with the delusional responses.
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Happy that there are still many women with rational thought and not just blatant misandry, I personally don't hold importance in body features but still won't date a fat woman as it speaks for her personality and care for her health.
Why should it matter if the woman is short? Why would it be any different for a tall woman to do it?
Frankly, rejecting someone on the basis of height or weight is ridiculous and not going to lead to good outcomes. One or the other is not "ok" for that matter.
Of COURSE it's okay for a man to turn down a woman because of her weight. What are you even talking about? Do you see more high-value guys with overweight women or with fit to average women? Why do you think that is?
Because they're more likely to turn down the fat ones.
Either way is fine...… people just don't like being rejected.
Double standards and sexism towards men. Just look at the comments on this post as proof.
it's okay just don't tell her in her face "YOUR WEIGHT IS THE PROB" that's not right. many nicer ways to reject someone
Nicer way: "I don't want to date Jabba the Slut"
@Jouth nope that won't do it
awe man
It's okay to turn anyone down, for any oh so stupid reason you have... nobody is obligated to date anyone that doesn't fit to your personal liking
Just a double standard, I personally don't mind either everyone has their own preferences in life, but just don't come off as being mean men and women.
women turn down men because they are too fat also but for myself, I am very active with outdoors so if I want to share that with someone a need to have someone that is the same health wise as me and be kind of a tomboy type
No one should be shamed for not being attracted to someone regardless the reason.
Because women want to be able to be fat and ugly and still get decent men. There is nothing on this planet as worthless as a fat and ugly women.
Most biitches in America are hypocrites
They can have standards but they lose their shiit if a dude has standards
Well maybe it’s because height doesn't equivalent to weight. .
Weight = weight
Height = height
And?
the point is, she got a xper "point"
@d3n0939 penis and vagina are not the same things either.
What is her point?
Weight is not height therefore according to her men are irrational for caring about women's weight. Lol
I was saying she got the xper point by telling nonsense.
well, you are too slow to understand
@d3n0939 i didn't comment on that exper thing. It was unnecessary. I care about the topic i suggested
tell that to the owner. don't disturb me again
@d3n0939 Nonsense? Seriously why is common sense bypassing people like you?
The point was it’s normalized to pick apart parts of both genders that doesn’t even equate to the same things. Supposedly a woman’s weight and guy’s height is a huge deal and seen on the same level of importance just as sex and money is always compared—> “I spend money on you so you owe me sex”. That doesn’t make sense. It should be “I spend money on you so spend money on me”.
Of course no one is entitled to anyone’s money or body for sex but it would make much more sense to equate things to what they correlate with
@d3n0939 dont disturb you? You came to this thread, no one invited you
Why a woman can ask his height but he can't ask her weight?
Of course he can ask. The point of getting to know someone is asking questions but acting as if both things are equivalent doesn’t make sense
Then you mentioned getting turned down, a negative, for two things that are completely different
I will ask a man what’s his height AND weight because in one person it’s important and you’ll get an idea of their shape but one asking about weight and the other asking about height is just weird, what if a short or tall woman was over or underweight? He would think she’s fine because he doesn’t know her height
He would ask her height too.
Many guys asked me how much I weigh and how tall I am. They want to know my height so they can see if I am slim, underweight or overweight.
How asking his height makes more sense than him asking her weight?
Its totally okay for everyone to turn down anyone. Dating is a personal choice.
both of them are NOT ok (weight can be gained or lost obv but height can't be increased or decreased)
You are allowed to have preference based on height even if we can't change it
@Wubs3000 as long as he's taller than me it's fine lol
😂 both of them will get criticized for that. You must love tall men
I can't really judge women irl grom what i see here cause I know most the ones on GaG don't go outside and grew up in sheltered & weird households with the delusional responses.
I agree with you..
It's just a preference I don't know why people get so bent out of shape
@marish01 your update is awesome!!
I forgot the question mark
@marish01 I got the point..
Either is fine. We all have our preferences. It just sucks to be on the receiving end.
Why is it okay to tell a white girl " Get a tan"?
Why is not okay to tell a black girl "Bleach up" ?
Hypocrites