We started dating, he is in a very stressful time in life (final exams of a very stressful degree, first and most notorious year).. he lives two hours from me. We meet when we can. We slept together, more than once. Its not like he's running away after sex, he sleeps over and we spend the night cuddling. We have such good chemistry. I wanted to know where is this going.. is it only friends with benefits, is it more? He says defenitions ruin everything and just want us to flow. Do what we do. Enjoy with each other. I really dont know what to think about it.
If a man meets a woman he sees value in, respects, wants in his life long-term and cannot see his life without her in it, do you think he will say 'Lets just go with the flow'. Your issue is you are looking to words to define something that you should have done through your own boundaries. You are intimate with someone before even knowing what / who they truly are. This is the result. Understand what sex really is (not what society preaches) and then you will understand how a man sees you can change once you treated it like it's not really that special.
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Things aren’t going to change. He’s making excuses as to why he doesn’t want to commit because he doesn’t want to commit. He’s most likely playing you and doing that same exact thing he’s doing to you, with other women as well. You need to take the relationship for what it is and if you don’t enjoy the way it is, you need to move on. Just because you gave him sex, doesn’t mean he owes you a relationship.
When a man meets a girl that he likes and wants, they do not have any trouble defining what they want and what they are. Since that is not the case for you, you are currently friends with benefits.
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