How can a girl approach a guy and not look thirsty?

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NathanDavis · Accepted Answer

pretty simple... (and not so simple)

how do you look to someone in particular or to others in general is always a matter of perception, and sometimes prejudice/stereotypes, and it will vary from person to person... and very often this is more about them and their own ideas than you, as a person

so the best is to not care about how it looks or what others think or say, don't care that much... because people will think or say, or see things in many different ways and you cannot help it all, it is pretty much impossible

what should matter more and most is who you are, and to be confident in that, who you are, how you are and what your intentions are... and any person that is worth will see through any impressions and will focus with interest on what you really are, will not be worried about concepts like "this girl is thirsty" or whatever

Avicenna · Accepted Answer

Yes, it’s quite possible, and I‘ve had a few do it who obviously knew what they were doing and were very confident and smooth when they did. That said, most women never approach a guy, so when they do, most aren’t very confident and skilled at it. The ones who are good at are very outgoing, typically very Street smart, and adapt to different circumstances Well. Those who aren’t good at it either just don’t have experience approaching people in general or aren’t outgoing enough to adapt easily and think on the fly.

melanieeeB · Accepted Answer

Just start a conversation and maybe ask out normally and if he says no I just say "Oh okay that's cool, nice conversation tho" and everything is good

Being to thirsty is in my eyes, when you come on him too strong and also sexual and if you can't take a no but just a normal ass approach is all good

Yomamakshsis · Accepted Answer

By being cheesy and casual, duh. If you don’t want to be perceived as a “thirsty” lady, then don’t do anything that would make you perceived that way. Just be yourself, too. I don’t really know. I’m just cheesy with romance 😅

Pinay_ako · Answer

Just say hi 👋 and smile.

hahahmm · Answer

You can't. But if you're smart you do what females have done for eons which is make yourself attractive and wait for guys to approach you. And if you're really smart you make sure not to give time to the guys who are low quality in CHARACTER/behavior/lifestyle.

Belgie · Answer

The trick is not to give a shit what anyone else is thinking.

If you're hungry, you get food.

If you're thirsty you get a drink.

If you want a conversation you call a friend.

If you want to talk to a guy then TALK TO THE GUY. Don't worry about what anyone else is thinking. The guy certainly won't be judging you.

Have the confidence to get what you want.

Anonymous · Answer

Just get in a single honest conversation about an innocent topic. Make it clear that you like it when he interacts with you.

Next time you see him ask if he would like to get coffee or something and lightly touch his arm. If he likes you he will probably respond. If he isn’t attracted to you he might keep talking to you but he won’t make a move.

RavVid · Answer

As in not looking as though you want him to buy you a drink or as in not looking as though you want to slurp him up?

Easiest way is to up to bar just after he does and initiate some inconsequential conversation. He might buy you a drink and let you slurp him. Win win.

demonics · Answer

1. Stop giving a shit about looking thirsty.  2. No thats it. Refer back to #1. Age 26. "I will never EVER approach a man!" Age 40: "I'm running out of time!"

Guy13 · Answer

You are likely to mature for boys yiur age. It is likely they will get freaked out from immaturity AND it have nothing to do with you. Saying 👋 and opening conversation is usually more than enough for most guys

Levin · Answer

Guys don't worry about that. We just want someone to approach us who we're attracted to, at least I do. Most women who hit on me I'm not into.

dustybiker · Answer

Do the approach with less game and more honesty.

BlueScorpio · Answer

I don't know by drinking a glass a water before speaking to him? Teepee. Just act normal and be yourself. Have a casual conversation.

CuberGuy · Answer

Oh darling, if you are really thirsty, then even if you try not to reveal it, your body language would spill your bins! The only probable way is to act like you're friends if you really wanna keep your secret deep within!

AviatorTom · Answer

If you're interested in the guy, go ahead and look thirsty, he'll be happy to offer you a drink.

FilmGuy93 · Answer

As long as you aren't tripping over yourself, profusely sweating, hyperventilating or freezing up like a deer in the headlights; you should be good.

d3n0939 · Answer

girls never get called thirsty. guys see it as a compliment. The same reason female pedos can get away with it. Because boys find it as a compliment

HighValue · Answer

Walk up to him, ask him for some water and tell him that she is thirsty while staring into his eyes. Then hand him her number and walk away.

Chazmatazz269 · Answer

Maybe have some water beforehand. Or maybe go ahead and appear thirsty. You’ll know he’s a good guy if he offers you some water!

Smoothing · Answer

It's all about the tone you use and choosing the right moment.

ElementoP · Answer

Tell him "this is what I think of you" then gently put your finger in your mouth and moan while you slowly pull it out and put it in his

glennos89 · Answer

I would like it when you look thirsty approaching a guy. Nothing wrong with that

anon1903 · Answer

It's a risk the asker should be willing to take

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