There's this guy who didn't give me any closure because we lost contacts with each other. We don't have a mutual friend. We don't go to the same workplace anymore. There is no other way to get back as we aren't connected on social media either. The guys who know him have crushes on me who are trying hard to break us apart. They are not helping us each other to get back with each other even though they have the chance to help us both in finding back each other. I don't like these guys. I just don't have any closure from him and neither he doesn't have a closure from me. We lost contacts of each other since his phone was stolen in which my mobile number was saved by him. He can't guess my mobile number without seeing it is my new number through which we were connected for a very less time. Now his mobile doesn't work when I try to call him. I don't know where he stays. He doesn't know where I stay. We lost contacts as soon as his mobile got stolen. I have no way to get closure from him. Shall I move on without any closure from him? Or should I wait for him hopelessly until he might find a way? Or should I try even more hard by crossing all the possible limits to get back with him?
Yes of course, not everything needs to have a closure. Plus no official closure, is still a closure lol
Move on, from reading everything and the comments it seems like you didn't really even know him that much, he is probably not even stressing out about this at all.
If he really wanted to get to know you, he would have got to know you in that short period of time you both talked, he didn't tho.
And he is definitely not the guy, you probably pictured him to be in your head. It's all not worth it.
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You said that "We don't have a mutual friend," but then you explained that "the guys who know him have crushes on me who are trying hard to break us apart." It sounds like you have mutual friends.
It doesn't sound like it was much of a relationship. You don't know where he lives, where he works, or any of his family and friends, and he doesn't know where you live, where you work, or any of your family and friends.
Yes as it is plain that he is not serious or has no intent to move forward in the relationship. It is time for you to move on as well.
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Have you tried googling him, I am sure he us on social media you can Google. Send him a friend request and you can regain contact form there.
yes; closure is overrated
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