Is it right to move on from a guy who's not giving me a closure no matter how much I'm pleasing him to give me closure nor staying and acting distant?

[Anonymous]

PS : He loves me few days. Forgets I exist the other days. Again loves me for some period when I force him to put an end to my love on him. Again forgets me other days after making me stay with him when I get attached again. He will make me feel bad about myself. I decided to leave him. Again he started showing unbearable toxic love. I accepted because I thought he's truly loving me. But then he got me attached to him and left me wondering what happened. When I said him I'm moving on, he again said me that he doesn't love anyone other than me. I believed him and rejected all new guys. I got attached to him. He started flirting with another girl and again started ignoring me. Now I lost my patience. I don't wanna continue being with him. I'm planning to move on from him by immediately loving some other guy. What's your opinion?

Am I doing the right thing?

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Right now since past few days he's not giving me any closure, not giving me any attention, acting as if I don't exist and giving me silent treatment. I asked him for closure. But he's not giving. I cannot tolerate his nonsense anymore. I would like to move on with another guy because another guy just proposed me and if I say no to him, I will lose this another guy because he's a popular guy among many girls but he chosen me. He might not give me an another chance if I won't accept him now

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Am I doing right?

[Changiis07]

I don't think it's right for you to immediately move on to another guy right away just to forget him. It's not nice to use people for your own benefit. The best you could do for yourself is accept the fact that he is not the one for you, that you learned a lot from the relationship. Best not to beg a man for attention and love because the right one will give you that and more. He is showing you who he is and is not fully invested in you. So I would say take time to heal and to be happy and content with yourself. That way you have self respect and are not putting up with hot and cold moods. You deserve better, so work on yourself to be the best version and don't jump into a relationship so quickly. You are entitled to ask a guy what his intentions are right away, you can ask what they want when you start to date that way you can easily tell the guys who are not serious

[Asker]

Yes I know that it's not suggested to move on immediately. But it is the only way to forget this before guy and also this new guy proposed me and I may lose him to other girls if I won't accept him as he rejected other girls for me

[Asker]

I'm still pleading the before guy to give me a closure but he's not giving since he doesn't wanna see me moving on with some other guy but he's not stopping flirting with other girls, not giving me any attention and ignoring me as if I don't exist. In this situation, only new guy can heal me immediately as he's giving me non stop attention and treating me with respect

[Changiis07]

I mean it could work out with this guy and only time will tell. I just say it's best to heal otherwise you depend on guys to give you happiness when it should come from within but if all is going well then go for it

[dreamstar72]

He is treating you like a side piece. He really doesn’t want you to be happy. Be happy and FORGET the inconsiderate jerk. Don’t listen to his lies or romance tales any more. Find someone that wants you for being you.

[Alyssa_11]

His silence is closure.