As a woman do you sympathize if a man has a financial insecurity problems or is that a deal breaker for you and why?

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

Guys, what has been your experience with women once they found out what career you have or how much money you make?

[lilyanony1]

The guy I'm currently dating doesn't earn very much atm because he's in training. But I don't care. The fact he was honest with me speaks wonders for us.
It also means that he's trying to be realistic about what we can do together.
I'm pretty easy going and personally so long as I can pay the bills, eat and we can plan to be able to do big things and actively work on doing that together. It's a starting point.
In life money comes and goes, but decent hunan beings are even harder to come by.
Once he qualifies we will be sitting better.

And I'm even starting my life again.

[Anonymous]

I don't see this as a deal breaker, I once broke and have financial issues before but if a man will not stay at worse why would I. Vice versa with a man, I will stay no matter how difficult it is that's what having a partner is someone who you can rely on and beside you always.

Woman who measure a man based on what they make is gold digger.

[Guy13]

Unfortunately, there are very few women that will engage one who is not somewhat financially stable. There are many who will go through the ups/downs with their partner when things fluctuate financially. It is how people are...

[Anonymous]

I would sympathise. Why would I care about how much he makes when my annual salary is $44k a year, and I personally know myself what it is like to struggle financially.

[MaxRobespierre]

Awesome! I am boardline homeless with $100k student debt and I've been dreaming of woman like you.

[Opinion Owner]

@MaxRobespierre I feel for you. I know what it is like to be in debt except my debt was $12k. You will get through the tough times and I assure you, you will find a woman who will love you for you.

[HoneyButterCup525]

I'm broke too but still live happy. No I don't want to hear him moping about his money or career.

[AssholeNumberOne]

I'd say it's disgusting for a woman to judge a man by how much he makes.

[melanieeeB]

Do you mean being insecure about his finances?

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

Yes?

[melanieeeB]

Okay, well it's only a deal breaker for me, when it's to a point like I see mostly on here, where it's literally exaggerated and over the top. Where guys assume they won't get pussy, cause they dont have the most expensive car or accuse women for only wanting rich men or other stupid shit.
Thankfully I have never met a man like that in person tho

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

Oh ok..