Please advise me in way I can take a stand im so tired ðŸ˜
My boyfriend doesn't make time for me at all... I asked him to give me his whole Saturday.. I even canceled plans with family so we can spend time together but he said we'll watch movie and them he'll do uber... yet, when he wnats to hang with his boys and drink he's willing to compromise and leave work for them... I get what's happening I see what's happening. I told him he's taking advantage of me he's like "people only take advantage of u if u allow them" like... he's right tho but instead of appreciating my efforts this is what he said- u know what I mean you'd expect to hear something comforting from the person ur willing to do efforts for... we havnt hung out in ages because he wnated to work and I understood that but it's so hard now since he has diff priorities. His work isn't the problem for me. It's how he never makes effort even when I tell him I love him or wants to go out yet he's willing to with others.. I want to let go I dont know how or where to start I'm so invested and worried about him I hate myself for it cuz it's obvious I'm allowing this..
My boyfriend doesn't make time for me at all... I asked him to give me his whole Saturday.. I even canceled plans with family so we can spend time together but he said we'll watch movie and them he'll do uber... yet, when he wnats to hang with his boys and drink he's willing to compromise and leave work for them... I get what's happening I see what's happening. I told him he's taking advantage of me he's like "people only take advantage of u if u allow them" like... he's right tho but instead of appreciating my efforts this is what he said- u know what I mean you'd expect to hear something comforting from the person ur willing to do efforts for... we havnt hung out in ages because he wnated to work and I understood that but it's so hard now since he has diff priorities. His work isn't the problem for me. It's how he never makes effort even when I tell him I love him or wants to go out yet he's willing to with others.. I want to let go I dont know how or where to start I'm so invested and worried about him I hate myself for it cuz it's obvious I'm allowing this..
