A slob, inactive lifestyle/doesn’t take care of him/herself, cheap, narrow minded/judge mental, afraid of changes. would you date a person like this?

[Livelystileto9]

Would you keep dating a person who: doesn’t flush the toilet, wash hands after using the toilet, a slob, lazy/coach potato, narrow minded/judge mental, cheap ass but great in bed?

[Kaneki05]

Lazy? Yes
Narrow minded? Depends what you mean as in conservative thinking narrow minded? Or narrow minded towards conservatives lol one of these is fine by me because I am also.
Washing hands? No
Flushing toilet? No
Cheap ass? That's just called smart with money so yes.

[Livelystileto9]

Narrow minded as super conservative, he even said that going dancing is a sin!
Cheap ass = stingy/greedy: most of the time we go out, I paid for us because I didn’t want hear him say “gee that’s expensive”
We went to the beach and decided to eat at one of busiest restaurant, he ordered $12 burger and he complaint, never tip the server when we go out (5% tip!!).
$12 burger is reasonable considering we were at a tourist attraction area, restaurant by the beach. Lazy = hole on the wall in the living room been there for years, he hasn’t fix it. Garbage can at kitchen filled up and stunk up the whole house, he couldn’t even smell it anymore…
Short story: I dumped him 3 days ago. 50 y/o man won’t change.

Thank you for asking :)

[Guy13]

No thank you

[Guy13]

Are you with someone like this ⁉️ That sounds pretty negative personality?

[Livelystileto9]

I dumped him 3 days ago. 50 y/o man with a 13 y/o daughter so he is setting bad example for her.
I calmly talked about all these with him but I didn’t see anything we’re going to be different, so I broke up with him. He is also very judgmental, narrow minded, afraid of changes/set the way he is, and greedy/stingy with money. Doesn’t take care of his health.
I even offered him help to clean his house, and be patience with him, but doesn’t matter I ended it 3 days ago. However he is great in bed!

[Guy13]

He is not a bright man. In a month, if not sooner, will regret it all tremendously !! Taking care of the people who love enough to take care of you is both right and good Business!! I am sure you will find the right soul. You are sweet !!

[dustybiker]

No. Sounds just as bad as a roommate who gets dumped and slides into heavy depression. I’d kick them out too.

[Livelystileto9]

I wonder about that too, he could be depressed…

[dustybiker]

It does sound like it.

[LazerBean]

I probably would not even be friends with that sort of person.

[Livelystileto9]

I agree!

[Iron_Man]

I wouldn’t tolerate that nastiness that would have to be fixed immediately you have to wash your hands always can you imagine him making you a sandwich after he doesn’t wash his hands?

[Livelystileto9]

It’s just common sense: flushing the toilet, washing hands, throw away the garbage when it’s full (the house stinks!) but I broke up with him 3 days ago. I am done, not going to be a mother to a 50 y/o man.

[Iron_Man]

Sorry to hear that I wash my hands all the time

[SoftCliff]

Doesn't wash hands after using the toilet? Ewww no, that's basic hygiene

[Googlemyahoo]

If he's all those things but great in bed at least you know why he kept you around.

[mandyfire98]

No way

[Hellraiser1984]

No. Sounds like a bad deal.