What am I doing wrong when I try to get into relationships but never seem to be successful, but I see other people doing it with no problems?

[OnlinePeanut22]

I have learning disabilities. I had no trouble obtaining. into a collegiate relationship, but. following college. I'm concerned that more folks who are close to my age are entering into or are currently in romantic relationships. I'm here looking unsuccessfully for any single men with a learning problem. I've attempted to convince my mother, but she consistently disagrees with me concerning males who are not learning disabled. I. Got no. chosen men with learning disabilities, though. Finding that has been really challenging. Real life hasn't been successful in helping me find any single guys around. Facebook dating is a legitimate dating site, by the way. Just a well-hidden portion of a social media app.

[dragoblack]

We live in a dating society where people hookup first, then if the sex is good, get into a relationship from there.
A very small percentage of people actually get to know each other as people before relationships. That's the sad truth of what dating society has evolved into and it is sadly why most relationships are toxic & abusive and/or the "love" dies off when the sex gets boring.
Building a relationship off of sex has a super high percentage of failing, along with life long consequences.
Look into the Demi-Romantic/demi-sexual community if you want a healthy relationship. We don't find romantic or sexual attraction until we get to know a person well.

[itsmegrave]

Hmmm sweetie. I think there are lots of reasons why people don't succeed in getting into relationships. Some people just aren't good at talking about their feelings , or they're too shy like me , some people might not even realize how attractive they are

[RolandCuthbert]

I think you are moving too fast. You have plenty of time for a serious relationship. I would say that when you look at other relationships, they only appear to be trouble free. I can't remember a single serious relationship that I had that did not have its own problems.

You will learn as you get older.

[OnlinePeanut22]

I am not interested in any hockup or friends with benefit. I don't see the point of them.

[RolandCuthbert]

That actually does not address anything I said.

I said you are moving too fast. How you interpret that as hooking up is beyond me. That actually means the opposite.

[OnlinePeanut22]

How I am moving to fast. He is one that said it not me.

[RolandCuthbert]

You don't think that judging your status by looking at your friends is wrong?

[OnlinePeanut22]

So what. I don't see the point of that. Again what dow does they do in my dating life nothing.

[Andres77]

You’re going for a relationship before you have a friendship.

[OnlinePeanut22]

Why would I go for friends if any guys that met had already gotten girlfriend. I don't see point of these guys

[J2ohhhhh]

What learning disabilities have you got?

[OnlinePeanut22]

Why does that matter?

[J2ohhhhh]

It's different case if you're easily distracted or struggle with reading or have other stuff.

[J2ohhhhh]

So to answer your question, it's quite critical information

[OnlinePeanut22]

None of this. It is genetic called 18-p not seen on search engines or any websites. very rare.