"Doesn't want to settle"... that's fine Boss Babe, don't "settle" until the wall crashes through your party life and you end up alone with nothing but 200 notches on your bed post. Enjoy that.
@Hispanic-Cool-Guy Why the fuck would she mock you or talk down to you? Ovbiously, she's going to be the one to wear the pants in the family, but if you ask the reverse question if Women believe in the idea of a man who wears the pants, they don't say, "Well, only if he doesn't mock me or talk down to me."
@bayoubomber: No. Money is a means to survive. I won't let the woman wear the "pants" in my relationship, besides the point I wouldn't be with a b*&%$ anyways.
@Hispanic-Cool-Guy So, nobody wears the pants? You won't let it happen. Yet, you aren't the bread winner? Tell us a scenario where you as a Male is not the BOSS BAE when you aren't the one wearing the pants. Don't tell us you wear the pants where the Woman obviously does.
@Hispanic-Cool-Guy So, you wear the pants no matter what and any how? That is so weird. You talk about being put down, yet you are putting down the POWER that is what?
@Hispanic-Cool-Guy Want freebies. You can't have freebies. They aren't free. If you taxed the richest 90% OR 100%, where does it get you? NO WHERE. It gets you one benefit that gets you three years of one said benefit.
@Hispanic-Cool-Guy You don't lead. Even if you wanted free health care and free Education. You aren't free. You can't have it. It's never free. and it's never not Commie. I'm not paying for your ineptitude. Ain't happening. If you want to live in a Commie world. Do it. No one says you can't. You must move to where it's happening. Don't tell me how to live. Yet, I will give you 4 reasons to not be stupid in regards to abortion.
@Justneedtokno I don't believe in the idea of a Boss BAE because it comes down to whether a person sucks as a leader or not.
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Nah. Guys couldn’t care less about that unless they’re paying for that kind of thing. The boss bae is just gonna realize in 10 years that there are younger, better looking ones that the guys really want.
Right. It's a liability more than anything. Because people will call you a bum and a gold-digger for dating her. As a man, that's a huge risk to our reputation.
@This_Is_My_Opinion8@Justneedtokno You see no problem with Boss Bae. I don't either. There's a set of circumstances that plants you in their Power. If you are so lucky to find a Woman who far out earns you, and can carry you, Congratulations. If you want to be a Silly Nanny, whilst telling us you still have Power over Women? You don't have it.
If you want a Woman who will cook, wash the blue jeans, get your ketchup out of said jeans, change your kids diapers, you must take a different role. The Woman owns you. Yet, you have so many roles. A lot of roles. You are emancipated. Yet you want equal rights? You can't have your cake and eat it too. Wait a minute? You can't be the wearer of pants. What dictates that?
@bayoubomber "while having power over women". You know that in a relationship neither side should have total control of the other right? It's not a competition it's a team up. Who wears the pants? Both.
But let's say the husband stays at home and she works. So what? Every relationship dynamic is different. And in fact stay at home father's grew in number a lot the past few years. You could not ever be in this type of relationship, and that is fine, neither could I, I like to work. But if a couple is happy like that let them be.
Why shouldn't they do what makes them happy? Because of social norms? Fuck that.
@This_Is_My_Opinion8 "while having power over women". You know that in a relationship neither side should have total control of the other right? It's not a competition it's a team up. Who wears the pants? Both." Do you know what you just did? I've never seen a Contradiction that blatant before. You have no issue with BOSS BAE? But neither side should have total control...
@bayoubomber what is your definition of a boss bae? Is it someone that has total control over everything? That doesn't listen to her partner ever? That always does what she wants with no regard for her partner? She says jump and he says "how high"? If so we have different definitions of a boss bae. To me is someone that yes makes most decisions, but doesn't has total control. Her partner also has vote on the matters, all of them. She simply takes the lead more often. Of course also an independent woman who takes no shit. Well educated with her own job.
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"Doesn't want to settle"... that's fine Boss Babe, don't "settle" until the wall crashes through your party life and you end up alone with nothing but 200 notches on your bed post. Enjoy that.
Why would there be 200 notches? Why can I just not have sex. Why do I have to be alone? Why is there Hass to be a choice?
Not me, I like a woman with Expectations. There are of course, Contract negotiations involved. 😎
No- this is just a pale-imitation of a man, which woman was never designed to be. Only gay men want another men to marry.
I don't have a problem with a woman being successful and having her own money etc.
She just can't be disrespectful towards me.
How would she be disrespectful?
Talk down to me or mocking me because she makes more money than me.
Oh ok gotcha
@Hispanic-Cool-Guy Why the fuck would she mock you or talk down to you? Ovbiously, she's going to be the one to wear the pants in the family, but if you ask the reverse question if Women believe in the idea of a man who wears the pants, they don't say, "Well, only if he doesn't mock me or talk down to me."
@bayoubomber: No. Money is a means to survive. I won't let the woman wear the "pants" in my relationship, besides the point I wouldn't be with a b*&%$ anyways.
@Hispanic-Cool-Guy So, nobody wears the pants? You won't let it happen. Yet, you aren't the bread winner? Tell us a scenario where you as a Male is not the BOSS BAE when you aren't the one wearing the pants. Don't tell us you wear the pants where the Woman obviously does.
@bayoubomber : I would lead. I don't need more money to do so or have the will to do so.
@Hispanic-Cool-Guy So, you wear the pants no matter what and any how? That is so weird. You talk about being put down, yet you are putting down the POWER that is what?
@Hispanic-Cool-Guy Want freebies. You can't have freebies. They aren't free. If you taxed the richest 90% OR 100%, where does it get you? NO WHERE. It gets you one benefit that gets you three years of one said benefit.
@Hispanic-Cool-Guy You don't lead. Even if you wanted free health care and free Education. You aren't free. You can't have it. It's never free. and it's never not Commie. I'm not paying for your ineptitude. Ain't happening. If you want to live in a Commie world. Do it. No one says you can't. You must move to where it's happening. Don't tell me how to live. Yet, I will give you 4 reasons to not be stupid in regards to abortion.
@Justneedtokno I don't believe in the idea of a Boss BAE because it comes down to whether a person sucks as a leader or not.
Nah. Guys couldn’t care less about that unless they’re paying for that kind of thing. The boss bae is just gonna realize in 10 years that there are younger, better looking ones that the guys really want.
Can a woman be a sold out capitalist wanker? of course
No I'm not surprised a girl should not settle with someone that can't exspect she makes more than him
No we don’t care because none of those things increases her value on the dating market
Ding! Ding! Ding!
When women go up in status, most men become invisible to them. Don't blame men for something women do to themselves
Nothing wrong with any of that. Really.
Just don't blame us if you won't find a boyfriend.
Status doesn’t really add value to women like it does men.
Right. It's a liability more than anything. Because people will call you a bum and a gold-digger for dating her. As a man, that's a huge risk to our reputation.
As long as she's not a stuck up feminist, I don't give a damn who she is.
"sold off to the highest bidder" what the fuck? that's some fucked up shit if you're saying that
You make six figures, I will gladly make dinner.
I see no issue.
@This_Is_My_Opinion8 Do I need explain why I think this is so fucking hilarious?
@bayoubomber By all means, tell me what issue do you see here. This will be fun.
Listening as well
@This_Is_My_Opinion8 @Justneedtokno You see no problem with Boss Bae. I don't either. There's a set of circumstances that plants you in their Power. If you are so lucky to find a Woman who far out earns you, and can carry you, Congratulations. If you want to be a Silly Nanny, whilst telling us you still have Power over Women? You don't have it.
If you want a Woman who will cook, wash the blue jeans, get your ketchup out of said jeans, change your kids diapers, you must take a different role. The Woman owns you. Yet, you have so many roles. A lot of roles. You are emancipated. Yet you want equal rights? You can't have your cake and eat it too. Wait a minute? You can't be the wearer of pants. What dictates that?
@bayoubomber "while having power over women". You know that in a relationship neither side should have total control of the other right? It's not a competition it's a team up.
Who wears the pants? Both.
But let's say the husband stays at home and she works. So what? Every relationship dynamic is different. And in fact stay at home father's grew in number a lot the past few years.
You could not ever be in this type of relationship, and that is fine, neither could I, I like to work. But if a couple is happy like that let them be.
Why shouldn't they do what makes them happy? Because of social norms? Fuck that.
@This_Is_My_Opinion8 "while having power over women". You know that in a relationship neither side should have total control of the other right? It's not a competition it's a team up.
Who wears the pants? Both." Do you know what you just did? I've never seen a Contradiction that blatant before. You have no issue with BOSS BAE? But neither side should have total control...
@bayoubomber what is your definition of a boss bae? Is it someone that has total control over everything? That doesn't listen to her partner ever? That always does what she wants with no regard for her partner? She says jump and he says "how high"?
If so we have different definitions of a boss bae.
To me is someone that yes makes most decisions, but doesn't has total control. Her partner also has vote on the matters, all of them. She simply takes the lead more often. Of course also an independent woman who takes no shit. Well educated with her own job.
I have no problem with her working.
Men don’t care.
I don't care what they do really.
sure why not