This is the second time I met this guy. I’m going back home tomorrow. He tried to kiss me 3 times and I rejected all of them. I’m back in my apartment now and he asked if he could come over for ‘hugs and nothing else’. This has kinda creeped me out, I definitely don’t want that. What do you guys think of it?
If you don't feel comfortable, don't bring him back. It's sounds really bad, but there are guys out there who will assault you and then blame you for 'wanting it' because you 'let them into your apartment'.
I think you rejecting his kiss should be enough of a sign, and he's clearly being selfish in his pursuit. He wants physical intimacy, and you're giving clear signals you don't yet, but he keeps pushing his own wants over your comfort in the first 3 dates?
Red flag.
No one ever says 'hugs and nothing else'. If you guys were sure about each other there would be no need for a clarification like that. Just pack it in, you had your dates, had your fun, time to leave.
If you aren't interested just don't see him again or block him. This getting 'creeped out' means you are still going along with it when not interested so take action.
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I think you should not meet him for a 3rd time
Umm, dating implies physical contact. But if he creeps you out then there is no need to lead him on anymore.
Um block that guy and be weary if you see him out there, please
Don't do it sounds like he wants to rape your
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