Are you scared of getting hurt out here in these dating streets?

[coachTanthony]

YUP

Nah bring em on

I just can't do it anymore

see poll ( Coach come save me from this puddle )

[ohsheeT]

Years ago I got hurt I and I swear even never ever happen again so that means I had to think about it deep I had to understand it and I had to understand why there's 5 million different types of love and we allow ourselves to feel and experience every one of them when we give ourselves to somebody we give everything our soul our spirit our energy because thinking that it will always be that way and then one day of things change you realize you cannot make anybody but love you you cannot make anybody do anything only yourself when you walk into a relationship one of the very first thoughts is I think I'm falling in love what happens if it doesn't work what am I going to do and in that moment in that clarity you already know the answer if it's going to work or if it's not going to work but we all have something inside of us we say nah it's not true it's always going to work but we know in that moment that we should walk away but we don't when you're soul and your spirit become one with somebody soul in spirit that's one type of love but when your soul your spirit and your energy of who you truly are inside become one sometimes it feels like it's out of control because when you break up you can't eat sleep you can't do anything you can't function because your energy is mourning the loss of their energy you can't understand why you feel the way you feel you can't understand why you can't eat or sleep you can't understand it's not even you anymore something has taken over your body that is your energy when two energy become one and they split that's different from you and that person becoming one this is kind of Deep but it's something that I believe in because it has happened before once you go through this once you feel this and you understand it you tell yourself it will never happen again no matter what it is and like that we experience we have to keep experiencing over and over until we get it right do we understand it that's what makes us human that's what teaches us when you can get through things without any pain or at least understanding why you feel the way you feel and there is no negative you allow opinion not to interrupt you you love judgment not to interrupt you you allow negative not to interrupt you allowed drama not to interrupt you that's when you say okay I am one with myself even though I was one with this person and someone with this universe and things are still good I will always love this person I will always be there for this person no matter what and you can walk away with your heart still intact you still have pain that you are the only person inside that can allow that pain allow that hurt because you are also the only person that can make yourself happy and understand the reasoning behind everything as long as you're open and want to grow the ultimate relationship is with yourself is with this universe and if you understand this and you are one with it you understand a lot of things you accept a lot of things you start out by being friends you should always end it as being friends it's a 50/50 chance to have a great relationship it's a 50/50 chance to have a piss poor relationship it's your choice on how you want it to be but only to a certain point you can't make anybody love you you can't make anybody care you can't make anybody tell you what you want to hear the only thing you can do is be the best you can be for yourself because if you treat yourself right you treat everybody right there is a love there's a bond that can't be broken until that other person wants to break it there's nothing you can do about that except for no in your heart you do the best you could be and if you weren't good enough you experience it you move on and you go to the next experience that's when people fight back and forth they're hurt but you can only be hurt because of something you might have done you have to experience it again and again

No matter what happens to me in life I go back when I was 2 years old wanting to learn how to walk I would try I would fall I would try I would fall I would get back up no matter what I had to keep experience in it until I got it right until I could walk then I learn how to run good experience it over and over until I became very fast no matter what our life is the same way everything we do is an experience we will keep doing it until we get it right

[coachTanthony]

That might be the longest comment in GAG history.

[ohsheeT]

Lol yeah can't seem to get away from that

[Anonymous]

My past experiences trying to date women organically (meeting in person) were all negative. One girl was an alcoholic who had no problem driving and driving, another girl was trying to make the guy she really liked jealous, another girl I met through work stood me up on a date, etc.

My only “positive” experience is I asked out a girl at a local gym. She politely declined saying she had a boyfriend. But she smiled at me in a way showing respected my courage. She was friendly and said hello to me when I saw her later (it’s a small gym) We still chat but I am being very careful to make sure knows I won’t accept the friéndzone.

That was a “positive” experience i guess. So anyway.

[Babygirl_S]

Yes, I'm not willing to have pre-marital sex and nearly all modern guys want it so dating is going to hurt me. It is extremely hard to find an attractive man who will marry me without that. My ex broke up with me because of that. It still hurts. Maybe I should only date Indian men from now on as they're more likely to wait until marriage.

[KlinkyCoder]

Even if you are sincere, there are other girls that have pre-marital or extra-marital sex anyway, even the ones that are nominally against premarital sex.

[242plusInfinity]

I think I'd wait if I wanted to marry her. I'd recommend finding guys younger than you are. I think they would be more willing to wait.

[Babygirl_S]

Thank you for the MHO!

[jennifer_bloom]

The biggest question I have for a new guy I meet isn't how much he makes or how cute he is but how violent and abusive he might get if he is upset with me. Also how lazy or loyal he is.

[coachTanthony]

That is a bit difficult to determin in the beginning but when those red flags come they come hard and heavy.

[OlderAndWiser]

Not scared, as I accept it as a potential consequence of dating. You've gotta take a chance if you wanna find romance! (You may quote me, Coach.) :) :) :)

[DawgthePawgSlayer]

Hurt can only come from a game that competes to win. If someone can get hurt then they can rejoice knowing that love isn't a game and pawg pimpin be lame since catz actin to play.

Pimpn hoes is cool by your pawg #?

Or do the 'log' rides of the pawg brides, "login love?

NO GAME no Hurt.

[coachTanthony]

I am still admiring that cool screen name lol

[NathanDavis]

nope, not at all...

I never place myself in harms way in the first place

I am very selective and there is PLENTY of people out there, that don't go around hurting others, and then I made myself worthy of their attention

[TroyDT]

No. I have more strikeouts than a little leaguer trying to hit off Ryan Hensley. I've been rejected more than a dwarf trying out for the NBA. I just accept it and move on. Eventually I find a girl who's a little blind who says, "Yes."

[KAT247]

I’m tired of being sexualized all the time and not enough people paying attention to getting to know the real me. I used to love the attention and knowing people found me attractive, but I just want to be with someone real.

[FriendlyDrugDealer]

Nah. Nothing really scares me anymore so bring it on!!


But in all honesty, it’s about being aware and finding ways to compromise with one another.

[Static_In_The_Attic]

I always say if you don’t try you will never know & if I like someone I let them know & when it comes to dating I rather try & fail rather than never try at all.

[PetiteBabe64]

No If a guy Tries to rape me Ill make sure I Kill him or act like I'm going suck his dick then I will Cut his Dick off or Make his balls explode I got muscular Forearms.

[PetiteBabe64]

Ounce I Cut his Dick off I'll take a Torch to it and start Burning so he doesn't bleed out

[Mamaganja]

After my ex and I broke up, nothing can ever hurt me that deep again lol. I’m just glad that my current boyfriend hasn’t gone psycho and tried to kill me like my ex did.

[melanieeeB]

No, we will all get hurt anyways so no, I'm more scared of not being respected enough and lied to, played games to and etc

[legalboxers]

its nyc.. its a minefield. you watch your own 6..

[coachTanthony]

The streets of NYC at least you can get a slice anytime you want. LOL

[legalboxers]

@coachTanthony but its not a $1.00 anymore.. its $1.75. and thats without a soda!

[coachTanthony]

That slice is worth a buck for sure but no way 1.75 that's crazy

[legalboxers]

@coachTanthony try going to the isle of staten.. $2.25.. lol...

[TheSpaceGnome]

I'm more worried about boring myself to death out there with how poorly neighborhoods cater to adults that prefer geeky/nerdy hobbies. I'd have better luck finding a date by knocking on random doors, than I would going out to a bar or club.

[FreyaRed]

Dating streets? ...
Oh, I forgot, in US is prostitution illegal.

[ZenJen444]

🤣🤣

[midnightmoon05]

Scare? No. But I was hit a few times. Ran over a few times. So I got wisen up.

[LovingJo]

Other* Yes, I'm afraid, but if you don't know first, you don't know joy.
You only learn by experience, 👍😊

[BlueScorpio]

If I was single, I probably would still be single if I never met my husband.

[Anonymous]

It' not fear. If that makes you more comfortable saying that it is, fine. I know what I feel. I gave 40 years. To pursuing women. The next 40 is there's if they don't want to do the pursuing then I'll stay single. It's not a problem. 🙂

[Opinion Owner]

Sorry coach. The juice generally just isn't worth the squeeze anymore.

[Massageman]

Yeah - my wife might clobber me if I went dating.

[Anonymous]

No. I've build an entire philosophy on how to find and retain a happy healthy relationship. I would know the signs that it isn't going to work well before it could hurt me. I would however feel disappointed but never love sick or anything that deep.

[Likes2drive]

Nah bring it on , I never get many dates to worry about getting hurt