I’m scared of scaring this away?

[Justneedtokno]

• Being clingy
• what him around/ me around him
• asking too many questions
• overthinking

We haven’t spend a whole lot of physical time together.

what if he really doesn’t like what he sees

[VIVANT]

If you are actually asking him questions then you are likely NOT “over thinking”. Over thinking is ( a terrible) way of saying circuitous thinking & getting stuck in your head instead of taking action. Asking questions on the other hand is an action. & if you are creating an open communication that solves the problem of getting stuck in your head. If he makes you feel annoying for asking questions when you all barely know each other (like how else do you get to know someone) then he is not that great and prob would suck in a relationship in my opinion

Now, if you are worried about asking him questions then yeah you are “ over thinking”

I think when we like someone it can be easy to forget the whole point in getting to know them is not to make them think we are incredible but to see he they fit with us. We all are nervous initially however, If you are uncomfortable being yourself it’s an important piece of info & you shouldn’t ignite that.

imagine you are trying a new hobby. Put in some positive effort but ultimately you Either like it or you don’t. A new person is really no different.

[RyanDeal009876]

It depends on the individual person.

I like clingy women, but some other people can't stand being smothered with attention like that.

[Philyouup]

Be you, just do you as best you can, if he falls for you when you do that, you never have to fear him leaving.

[VIVANT]

💯 👈🏻👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼

[Jamie05rhs]

Too much overthinking on the front end. Just meet him, stay calm, talk, and go from there.

[msc545]

Be VERY careful of this, especially if you just met her recently. A cardinal sign of BPD is inappropriately early overdone affection. Even in men.

[Justneedtokno]

I don’t know if somethings a little off about them, but I don’t know what it is

[KrakenAttackin]

As soon as he acts like this you will dump him.

[Justneedtokno]

You know I’m talking about myself right acting like this

[KrakenAttackin]

I did not.

[Justneedtokno]

So the notion is, I would scare him away, not the other way around

[Anonymous]

Can be fun but theirs a lot in life to do with out all that.