Is having a girlfriend not a big deal anymore? What about losing your virginity? Are these two things are like whatever?

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My friends keep saying that having a girlfriend or sex isn't that good. They, tell me that they just take your money, waste your time, and are annoying to deal with 🥲😔😔

I can't really say much because I never dated or know what's like to have a girlfriend 😕

So, are they right in a way?

BJP21 · Accepted Answer

That solely depends on the Girlfriend, I had one that often had time appropriations issues. Such as wanting to go the gym at 11pm at night or go to places that were absolutely crowded for dinner we didn't get to eat until late at night. She expected me to run around right after work. It was often we were always doing activities miles from anything local.

This was solely my experience. I was ok with it but I eventually got really burned out and finally had to put my own foot down after a while. Dont get me wrong if its all about the experience of being with someone you want and love.

ShadezMcgee · Accepted Answer

Depends how you want to look at it. Ultimately you need to experience it yourself to learn what your tastes and outlook of it will be.

One thing about relationships is that it takes a lot of work, dedication and time that both sides should put in equally. It isn't just about you anymore at that point. It is about your partner too.

Paulalove98 · Accepted Answer

Well having no relationship in general isn't the worst thing in the world even tho it can get lonely and upsetting at times but at least we aren't getting cheated on or money taken away. I haven't had a boyfriend in almost 2 years. Im sure one day you'll find someone!

Avicenna · Answer

It's up to you as an individual to decide what is important to you in life and what you want to achieve. One person's experiences will not be the same as another's. Yes, there are lots of women out there who either aren't worth your time or just aren't the right person for you, so it is very hard to get a good relationship, but it's also not impossible.

I'll wager that there are more pressing things for you to do in life than to get a girlfriend, so don't take your eye off the ball. That said, meeting someone is usually totally random, so be opportunistic. And stay the hell away from escorts and OnlyFans, as they will permanently and very negatively skew your views of women.

RobT312 · Answer

Naw, your friends are wrong. Go find the right girl and you'll see

TheSpaceGnome · Answer

Having a girlfriend is the best, but losing my virginity is whatever. I don't see it as "virgin vs achievement". I see sex as a bonding thing with someone special.

boggboss · Answer

Its all down to what u want at the end of the day before I had a girl I wasn't much bothered now I do I enjoy it and wouldn't wanna go back sure I have less time but I enjoy the time I spend with her

NathanDavis · Answer

having a partner and a healthy sexual life are so Summer of 2022... it's the Fall now and Winter is coming forget about happiness, it is not trendy anymore... TIkTok said so

Berethor · Answer

The grass is greener on the other side, yes many girls are gold diggers nowadays.

exitseven · Answer

Having a girlfriend is awesome. Losing your virginity can probably either be really good or just an exercise in futility.

Smegskull · Answer

Yeah. A same sex roommate is more fun an less stress.

Fuentes · Answer

We need to catch a fade

Dinosaursandanime65 · Answer

That depends

FigaseGames · Answer

Nice

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