How do you date someone so opposed of you?

[Justneedtokno]

Throughout talking to this person, I have learned don’t see eye to eye on a lot of things, and some things are so oblivious to them.

Morally I can’t get with it

[JDavid25]

Well either you learn to respect and take what you will from each others views, or you cut your losses, heal up, and find someone who more fits you.. What's most important is that your worldviews and goals match, or you just take what you guys are doing for what it isand not complicate it.. That's how it was with my ex.. We basically opposed each other's views and beliefs.. Worst of all our worldviews didn't match up at all, which was sad, because we weren't too different as people.. Just make sure you don't Let it ruin something good if that's what you have.

[Justneedtokno]

I don’t think he has the same publicly cultural things as I do.

[JDavid25]

Publicly cultural things?

[D-Pad_Chad]

I mean the obvious answer is you don't. Without similar moral and ethic values as a base dating someone morally opposed would be disastrous, and even someone whose just uncomfortably different would run a high risk of future conflicts and the like.

[DaveJord]

You know I have tried, I mean at the end of the day who do I think I really am anyway? So we don't agree on some things, to the degree that we are totally opposite or I seriously just don't give a shit about the things they seem to care about. But I tried anyway because what makes me so right, or to think my opinion on a subject is so valid? I don't need someone to agree with me on certain subjects.

So I have tried and they get stuck on these arbitrary things as if it is so relevant to them, when honestly in the grand scheme of things its not. So I say if its that important to you, or that I am so intolerable to you... then get on with your bad self. Because I know I am not all that, and I still perfectly happy with myself... and if you need more than that from me then yeah... move on.

[Pinay_ako]

🤣 that’s why there’s a getting to know each other stage. If he is already opposing of me on the get go, I’ll thank him for the preview. Adios, amigo. There’s opposites attract and there’s just an enemy. Which one are you? 🤣

[Cynicaldreamer]

You don't. Why try to justify being with someone that's made it obvious they're not interested or compatible with you?

I'd personally take it as a sign to just be friends, or stop dealing with said person.

[Summeroflove]

Many times. It means it isn’t meant to be. Sometimes. It’s not you or the person you’re dating (sometimes it is) but. I would say. It isn’t meant to be. Don’t waste your time or his on something that isn’t gonna work

[carlgpfeifer]

Good start to ask someone out on a date is to be clam and friendly not to over react to there reactions for me is like to take your time when asking for someone out on a date just relax just settle down take it nice and slow and easy don. t over do it

[DizzyDesii]

Those are the type people I’d dispose of in less than 2 weeks

[NathanDavis]

I don't think I ever did...

by the time I went out "on a date" with someone... I was already sure about all the kinds of great they were. lol

[FilmGuy93]

I’ve dated women I don’t have much in common with. The relationships were fine, but the big thing was that we agreed on essentials; life purpose and that sort of thing.

[Sixgunsound]

They date someone because they don’t want to?

[Justneedtokno]

They don’t want or like the same things that I do, which is fine but certain things I think I’m morally wrong

[Sixgunsound]

Oh it sounded like they didn’t want to date you but just did it anyways, which makes no sense. If you think something is morally wrong that isn’t going to change for a person you are dating, so I’m not confident in the long term outlook.

[Justneedtokno]

It just feels like I have to teach about things that he should already know

[Sixgunsound]

That being the case, if you don’t want to be his mother for the rest of your lives together I would seek better opportunities elsewhere.

[Berethor]

Men and women tend to be different, so it's more about having common goals.

[Moose304]

Opposites attract only in the movies and with a magnet! In the real world in most situations is a waste of time.

[Heolurt]

I almost wrote out a entire paragraph because I had the wrong idea of what you meant by "opposed" until I read the rest of it.

[Jennz6]

I don’t date him, just sex when he wants it

[TheSpaceGnome]

You don't, you go find someone else.

[LazerBean]

You don't.

[BlueScorpio]

You don't? It won't work out.

[boggboss]

You dont lol

[jamartheg]

Then date them as a side piece

[Jamie05rhs]

You don't. You walk away.

[Kiran_Yagami]

You don't. You just smash and dash.