Why do I get called out for messaging girls on facebook?

[red324]

This isn't the first time this has happened. How can someone speak on another's behalf too? Like how embarrassing for that person. Is she not allowed to speak for herself? I didn't make her accept my friend request. I'm just an independent guy, never was the party type so never really did get the socialization I should have, so I do what I can to try and make new friends, flirt with girls etc. Nothing wrong with that from what I can see. I have a right to make a friend, date etc. Opinions? No reason to be called a creeper asking me why I'm messaging a certain girl. Wtf?

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I didn't bother arguing I just reported the one girl for calling me out and blocked/deleted both of them. Felt pretty good honestly since that's what so many girls do to me. Just disappear without another word.

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Remember everyone is a stranger in the beginning.

[NerdInDenial]

You’re “creepy” because you don’t meet her standards or you look odd to her or she cannot use you.

[red324]

I'm thinking it's a jealousy thing.

[red324]

Never knew she had such a temper. We went to grade school together. A few months back she was touting how she finally got her new refrigerator. I respond and say who the fuck gets excited about a refrigerator? Lol She blew a gasket when I said that. I'll admit I could have worded it better, but still don't understand the reason for all the anger. I was teased my whole life so I learned to take things that people say and turn it around so it's a joke. Not everyone was raised to let things roll of their back like I do. I think it says a lot about a person by seeing if they can take a joke.

[Amarah0]

Adding and messaging random strangers is just considered weird. Facebook is meant for people you already know

[red324]

Why do they always add me then?

[Amarah0]

Possibly to figure if they do know you

[LimitedBenefits101]

Sounds like she's the jealous type