Saying what's up to a (not so old ) flame? Part 2?

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He agreed spontaneous is good and that he enjoyed talking to me and that's why the distance didn't bother him (at the time I'm guessing?) And that he is glad that I did talk to him. I didn't respond to any of that. Now the questions

Which out of the 3 reasons is the real one why he ended our "relationship": the distance, him going on a date, him having very little time?

Was he in a relationship to begin with? ( He said there was some sort of situation with his daughter's mother , like she was in rehab or ill or something, but not that they were together)

Did he think I was in a relationship? ( I had to get off the phone with him once as my ex interrupted the conversation (he brought my son to me while I was on the phone) I was a bit embarrassed but explained to him later what had happened. He played it cool. But who knows right.

If I was a little pushy about meeting is that such a turn off?

Did he never intend to meet with me in RL? And the whole thing was just to boost his self esteem and for fun?

Why not meet if he obviously liked talking and my many pictures?

Was he self-conscious about me not liking him in person? (His profile pics were better (a bit younger and skinnier) than the ones he sent me during texts.)

What men prefer to text than meet in RL?

Do men really not get emotionally attached even a little after a whole month of daily texts (like throughout the whole day like about everything and anything intimate and work related and family related and relationship topics and kids and etc) and hour long phone calls with someone good looking?

What can I possibly say to him now to perhaps rekindle our relationship?

How to get in touch with him without sounding needy?

Saying what's up to a (not so old ) flame? Part 2?
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