Boyfriend and I split up now he keeps trying to message me?

Anonymous

31 (f) and 30 (m) we have been exclusive for two months however have known each other for a few years.

Everything was going great and we were inseparable until his baby mom stopped him from seeing his children all of a sudden. I noticed him becoming distant but told him I was always here for him which he seemed to appreciate.

He then went totally quiet on me and said he couldn’t be bothered with anyone so I took it as a sign we was finished and removed him from everything. I then bumped into him a week after and we started talking again.

He told me because I removed him he had no choice but to accept we was done but he really misses me and misses what we had. We had been talking back and forth about the situation for a few days with him keep telling me he misses me and how he still thinks I’m incredibly beautiful and sexy.

We both admitted we had started talking to new people but I have intact been talking to a girl and I told him we shouldn’t talk anymore and I wish him all the best and I’m sorry I wasn’t the person he wanted me to be. He replied with “girl? You batting for the other team now?” didn’t even say I wish you the best too he just wanted to know about the other girl as it’s none of his business. I then ignored his message.

Since then he has been sending me the most random messages to try and get me to talk to him.

Why is he doing this if we’re over?

Boyfriend and I split up now he keeps trying to message me?
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