Met this guy through an online dating app, but then rejected him. He said he wanted to hang out with me as a friend. So, we did meet multiple times over the course of 2 years as friends, but he would always pay for things. He recently started flirting a lot more with me. So, I asked him to date seriously because we're of age... I like his personality. He seems genuine, honest, and kind. But I'm scared. What if I won't find him attractive once he takes off the shirt. I've told him once that let's be weight loss buddies. But I haven't mentioned that since, because I don't want him to feel conscious. But I'm scared that I might like him more and more that we hang out, but I'm scared that I won't feel attracted to his body.
What to do if you find a guy who is really nice to you, takes care of you, and is loving, but he's pretty heavy? You normally don't find heavy people?
