What to do if you find a guy who is really nice to you, takes care of you, and is loving, but he's pretty heavy? You normally don't find heavy people?

[Anonymous]

Met this guy through an online dating app, but then rejected him. He said he wanted to hang out with me as a friend. So, we did meet multiple times over the course of 2 years as friends, but he would always pay for things. He recently started flirting a lot more with me. So, I asked him to date seriously because we're of age... I like his personality. He seems genuine, honest, and kind. But I'm scared. What if I won't find him attractive once he takes off the shirt. I've told him once that let's be weight loss buddies. But I haven't mentioned that since, because I don't want him to feel conscious. But I'm scared that I might like him more and more that we hang out, but I'm scared that I won't feel attracted to his body.

[slatyb]

Could you? Would you? If the answer is no, then you don't lead them on.

[BarryLiverstone]

Go to the beach with him and he’ll take off his shirt to go swimming. Then you can see how he looks and if you are into him. If not then tell him you just wanna be friends