Sleeping with 8 different guys?

[Anonymous]

Been seeing my ex again for 3 months now, we're not exclusive but she knows I want to be and be serious and everything... she'll talk about us having kids and maybe getting married and shit at times... she'll always talk about other guys, whether it's ex bfs or just other "friends" I've always had the feeling I wasn't the only one. So I went through her phone and found out she's talking and fucking EIGHT guys... like WTF? I scrolled through tons of messages. Nudes, videos, etc... anything you could imagine was in the texts. She's met 3 of the guys through her work. But it's like, I don't know what to do think or what to do...

[OlderAndWiser]

Dude, she's not fucking 8 guys; she's fucking 9 guys and you are only one of those nine. So. . . what to do? Well, do you think she would be a good mother for your future children? A good role model? A responsible parent? . . . Yeah, I don't think so, either.

So, if you want to keep fucking her just because it feels good, you can do that, but suppose you then meet a girl who is actually a good woman, and you develop a relationship, and then that girl goes through your phone and discovers that YOU'RE fucking YOUR ex?

[Fireguy17]

either be the 9th or move on seems to be your only choice at this point.
Girls just want to have fun!

[Little_Bumblebee]

Maybe you should first of all learn to respect someone's property and privacy.

You already said you're not exclusive.
Maybe that would have been a good starting point if you didn't want her to be with others.
Open and honest communication is important - which you clearly cannot do.

[whereismyjohnny]

I’ll never understand dating or texting multiple people at once. If it bothers you, move on.

[boggboss]

What did u expect u are not exclusive so why do u think she will act that way

[TroyDT2]

That is pretty common in non-exclusive relationships.

[Anonymous]

The fact she's your ex means you dodged a bullet and a bad relationship. A woman like her is a complete psycho

[NerdInDenial]

Walk away…