Is my LDR boyfriend seeing someone else or is it all in my head?

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even though he never normally would, like he wanted to not interact with me. He is visiting his sister more than he has ever done. He's been really quiet like he has nothing to say to me or the conversation gets really dry.

I have been unsettled today and he randomly sent me a sexual video that he said he made earlier this morning and he was "saving it for this sort of situation." That I should use it to work out my unsettled mood. I'm confused why he would pre-emptively make a video like that. I don't feel like it was ever even supposed to be seen by me and it was just sent as a way to distract me/shut me up. I mentioned that I was confused as to why he made a pre-emptive video as it seemed strange to not mention it then randomly send me it so late in the evening when I was talking to him about being restless, he didn't answer but went quiet. After the conversation really dried up and he said he felt weird about my mood and didn't know how to help. He mentioned that I was getting on his nerves a little and needed to chill when I asked why he was so quiet. His good night message was also strange and mentioned that he loved me and that when I was in a good mood I am "amazing and so funny" Am I over thinking or does it seem like there is something going on?

Is my LDR boyfriend seeing someone else or is it all in my head?
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