My boyfriend and I are the same height. he wants me to wear heels. I jjst know I’m gonna feel super insecure , how do I overcome my insecurity?

[Anonymous]

We’re both 5 8. Im not crazy tall, but tall enough guys would always bring it up; people would say things, and I often tower over friends and am the same height, if not taller, than a lot of guys. I’ve always wanted to wear cute heels and wedges, and have a handful in times, but hardly do as I’m jjst so insecure. I wasn’t ever really made fun of for my height, but people often commented on it, and I’ve just always been real insecure. I wanna wear heels and wedges, but don’t know how to feel comfortable doing so

[YourFavoriteFriend]

If you are so convinced that it's an insecurity then you just... get over it! There is not easy way to get over an insecurity. You just try to not about it and you get used to it and eventually stop thinking about it. It's what I do with my height. It's hard but it's better than allowing an insecurity destroy your life and fun!

[Berethor]

Where you live? I don't think that all girls should be wearing heels, you already too tall.

https://www.worlddata.info/average-bodyheight.php

[A_Bell]

I'm 5'11" and wear up to 4 inch heels but usually 3". You may seem odd, but really you leave an impression. People remember a tall girl. Guys either love us or hate us, but the secure and confident ones love a tall woman.

[htmndg183]

Agreed.

[NamerOfStars]

Well, if it's a *relative* height issue, then the obvious option is to have him also wear heels, but that's probably not a viable solution, for several reasons.

The only way past insecurity like that is through. People want to stare? Let 'em. It won't hurt you.

[Anonymous]

I'll tell you what women say when guys feel insecure, "Man up"! It's not always easy for guys to feel secure. But they have to if the ever want a woman to give them a chance. So just ACCEPT some things thiers just ALWAYS a price you got to pay. And not everyone is always nice. But that don't make everyone the devil either.

[Danny_dan92]

As a girl you are considered tall. He to most women is considered short.


Just embrace it. If this is really that much of a deal breaker for you. End the relationship

[Summeroflove]

That’s weird. Lol.

[Asker]

Please explain babe

[Summeroflove]

Sorry I read that wrong. Look. You can wear what you want for some reason I read it as he wanted to wear heels.

If you want to wear heels then do it. If not then don’t

[Summeroflove]

Maybe after you wear them a while you get used to them. But you shouldn’t be ashamed of your height. That is something you can’t control