I'm very handsome, but girls don't approach me. Why?

[Anonymous]

People say I'm "too" handsome, but I don't have a girlfriend and no girls approach me. What should I do. Why doesn't any girl approach me for a relationship, try to talk? Isn't it enough to be very handsome?

[ExoticWarrior]

As someone who is very attractive themselves I can tell you it doesn't change the courtship process. You still need to initiate it as it's the masculine thing to do, you need to take the risk of rejection. Girls are more scared of rejection then guys are. It makes it even worse by being an attractive guy as you're more likely to reject them if they do approach.

I have girls literally swarm me in nightclubs and stuff but it's never been the case that any of them will initiate the verbal communication, at least not in a "I want to get with you" sense. They have to keep plausible deniability. Exceptions are if they're really drunk or over 30 - where they're over the facade.

[oh_k789]

That sounds surprisingly experienced for your age. I endorse it. Being drunk will make them come out as they actually are.

[serious]

You being handsome is great but in combination with that you should also have an excellent personality.

Think about your personality aspect and where you can improve and make it better.

[Asker]

There is no problem with my character.

[serious]

Well, you know better. I just gave an opinion.

[alice55]

You're surely not as handsome as your think and when people say this to you they're just being nice cause saying the true make you rude...

And if you're really attractive then you need to approach girl you're a man no woman will ever approach you even if you were Brad Pitt.

[FunnyGiy]

A lot of handsome people don’t get a lot of complements

[alice55]

@FunnyGiy then guess you re ugly and they re being nice

[FunnyGiy]

I don’t know. It was something I read.

[FunnyGiy]

How good I look depends on the day

[alice55]

@FunnyGiy people usually don’t give compliment unless they want something usually

[FunnyGiy]

Some people do flatter for sure. Usually I can tell if it’s genuine or not

[TrueConfection]

This is a great quesion!

[Asker]

So can I have your answer then?

[TrueConfection]

I'm not an expert, but I've heard there could be a "bad vibe" someone in your position could be putting out.

[FunnyGiy]

Because if you like someone. Then ask a girl out. Especially if you’re so handsome. If you asked girls out. You will get a yes.

Men and women both need to stop waiting around. Especially women you don’t know. Might not even notice you.

[Anonymous]

What about you share a photo of you?
Sometimes visibile proof is a better starting point than just words.

[Asker]

How can I forward the photo to you?

[Opinion Owner]

No way. You can upload it to a host site such as Imgur, or put it within your Question here. No other possibilities (I don't think direct messages to people here support including photos: can't be sure though).

[Asker]

Come in; ibb. co/y6zRDFg

[Asker]

remove the space and add https://

[Opinion Owner]

No way to make it work.
Try posting the full, right URL

[Asker]

ibb. co/B62bygV

[Asker]

ibb. Delete the space between and co and paste it in the search section (link section) in the browser.

[Rockstarrrrr]

Maybe you're not as handsome as you think... if you're a handsome guy, girls will approach you no matter what..

[Anonymous]

You're too young. Women generally don't start approaching guys till after 30. That's when the power shifts to men. It's stupid I know. But it's silly societal rules.

[anon1903]

Show me a pic of you.

Pasteboard. co

[In_Trance]

It's something you're saying or doing (or not)