On the 1st date he didn't pay for my coffee. Does it show that he is a stingy person? (Page 3)

[QuietVerbena]

He’s stingy. Coffee’s cheap. Unless of course you volunteered to pay.

[sassy_receptor]

i think it’s too early to say. but definitely keep an eye out on the issue from here forward.

[FilmGuy93]

Nah... that more just shows that he wants to take his time in seeing if you're the kind of lady he wants to take more seriously.

[Pyrofox]

I'd say its more likely he didn't value your time.

[lalaloveee]

Depends on his culture but is most likely a stingy.

[HaveNoName]

Disgraceful behavior on his part. And yet, you do not find that an immediate RED flag. I will NEVER let a girl pay unless it was an agreement from before (like a treat or invitation).

[BJP21]

Not necessarily, time will only tell the true nature if he is stingy. Id try a few dinner dates and see where that goes. If he doesn't pay then, he's stingy.

[jshm2]

Nope. It shows he saw little value in continuing the relationship.

[TacosRAwesome]

in my opinion if it's just a coffee and he doesn't pay he's stingy especially if he took something more expensive for himself.

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

For a cup of coffee, it probably shows he's stingy with his money, doesn't like you enough or sense you probably felt entitled to his goodness/money without you not even being his woman.

[exitseven]

He is really stingy. Guys always pay and its about time he acted like one.

[Overcummer]

Coffee is such a trivial thing to NOT buy for someone I’d say it’s a red flag but give him another chance some men might think they’d insult a girl by being the “provider” of sorts you never know with girls these days

[User3191989]

I don't mind paying, and in fact think the man should HOWEVER, the woman needs to at least offer to, that way, it at least looks like she cares to pay

[Anonymous]

The fact that you have a problem with it shows that you're stingy.

[Opinion Owner]

Why do women shun and shame traditional gender roles until it comes to men? Seems you all want proper gentlemen without being proper ladies.

[_piotr]

And if girl expects guy to pay? Is she stingy? Stop exploiting men!

[Danny_dan92]

Women want equality. Ok dope. Men pay for their own things and so do women

[Anonymous]

Did you pay for his? If not, does that make you stingy?

I don't understand these questions from women. Did you not actually want equality?

[OddBeMe]

Need more evidence. But chivalry can either hide assholes behavior, or it can show who is an asshole. But it’s hard to say which.

[TheFlak38]

it's called equality. the one thing women are whining and bitching about constantly

[Pohjolan]

It's just a coffee. He probably didn't even think about it.