Why are most guys I meet interested just not enough?

[Anonymous]

I'm a good looking girl, curvy fit. Not super slim but take care of my body. I attend events and get out every weekend. I've been off and on dating apps too. I've noticed an on going trend. Men may like me, either they don't pursue me or when I make the move their interested just not enough. I completely confused and I wonder why I continue to get slowly rejected or ghosted. What's your opinions for the why and what can I do?

[jennifer_bloom]

I think of dating as a boxing match, people pick partners their size and skill level, if you are a cashier, you could probably find a postal carrier who wants to marry you within one year but you might have to go on 2,000 blind dates with 2,000 doctors before you find one that wants to marry a cashier etc… Money and good looks are not a guarantee but kindness and loyalty is given if that is what you offer to others.

[peacesncream]

Maybe it's not you or they might be judging you on your personality or something but iam sure you will find someone or they will come

[JDavid25]

As a fairly good looking male (based on what other people tell me) with a pretty nice body, I'm in a similar situation.. I feel like a lot of people get into your looks, but then don't really take the time to actually get to know the person that you are.. They just mostly assume.. They pick based on stereotypes.

[YourFavoriteFriend]

Rejections do happen. Don't worry about it, just keep trying! Also, try to find older men (that you are attracted to of course) as after 30s, men tend to go for younger girls so that can be one reason that they are not "interested enough".

[Anonymous]

A lot of women overestimate looks and sex appeal, but underestimate attitude and personality.