Girls, Should I go for it or pass?

[MrJoJo27]

I told my sister about my recent transition and she was excited for me. She said that she has a friend who's brother is gay and I guess they showed him a picture of me and he thinks I'm cute. He's pretty cute himself, about 6'0, not buff but still athletic, and according to quite a few people well hung too. They want to set us up on a date but I'm nervous because 1. It's her friend's brother so if it doesn't go well it will be awkward and I don't want to ruin their friendship, and 2. I've never had sex with a guy before so if he's as big as they say it's kind of intimidating, like will it hurt a lot? Just need some advice.

You should go for it girl!

You should pass girl.

[Agirlinneedhelp]

Just go for it. And you don't have to have sex right away, wait until you're comfortable with him then see where that lead.

Also, don't worry about ruining their friendship, as long as he's not directly your friend's brother then it doesn't really affect the friendship.

[MrJoJo27]

I know I really should, he's attractive and nice too I just really hope he's attracted to me in person. I'm scared of being rejected.

[Agirlinneedhelp]

It could be scary, but always think like, even if he did reject you, so what? You'll just get back to doing you and it won't be a big deal.

I certainly don't go through my day thinking or talking about someone I've rejected, no one does!

So, it could be a nice relationship, friendship or just a one time date! But the important thing is that you take a step and see for yourself if it's any good.

[MrJoJo27]

That's so true, and yeah I don't have to have sex right away but I'm really tempted, he's just really charming and I even dared him to send a dic pic and the rumors are true 🙈 lol

[DaisyM23]

are you a trans guy?
just go for it if you want to, he sounds nice enough and if it works out it works out, if not it doesn't but don't worry about the whole sister's friend's brother thing

[MrJoJo27]

I'm a trans woman (male to female) and yeah you're right, I guess part of me is just really nervous about this new experience.

[DaisyM23]

ooh right okay
i mean you're going to date eventually, go at your own pace, no matter how slow or fast, and have people you feel with comfortable with along the way