White Men What Is This?

[Anonymous]

I'm a black woman I'm fairly attractive and get attention quite often, my partner is a white male. We went to a pizza shop (we live in a predominantly white area) and ordered food, the brunette asks if I'm next and he says "she's with me" from the moment I walked in I felt like I was being stared at intensely he stood in front of me so she would stop staring, after getting our food my boyfriend told me "she was staring at you really hard, like an evil eye, I thought she was going to compliment you, maybe she was figuring you out." Also before we left she made eye contact with another white female like "look at this, I can't believe it" white men what is this? This isn't the first time a white woman has made this face at me while I'm with him.

[Summeroflove]

She’s just judgmental. See what you need to understand is the fact that some people are jealous of you and your boyfriend. They see how happy you both are and how beautiful you are and how handsome he is and just feel sorry for themselves.


People also hate their own lives so they have to look down on others to feel superior. Guess what? If you’re both happy. That’s what matters. I wish you both the absolute best and don’t let other people tear your relationship apart

[Guy13]

It is what it is. She obviously won as you hyper-focus on negative and what is outside of your actual reality. Why do you care? World is fallen, not fair, and everyone has to get use to their own "junk" that is involved in Being.

[Asker]

Just answer the question man? I'm not being negative I am curious

[Guy13]

White guys do not care or think about it. Ask the white girls woman...

[Cristinaissweet]

You don't usually see black women with white guys... I'm black woman married to a white guy.

[Asker]

That's true but girl this wasn't a curioustu stare she was fuming. He usually doesn't pick up on these things but he did today

[OlderAndWiser]

You don't understand jealousy and resentment?

[Asker]

You think she was jealous?

[Anonymous]

Karens, OOPS, I mean white women pretend they're all for equality and anti-racism, but they fume with anger when they see Women of Color "stealing" white men, especially attractive ones.

They think they own white men. They have the right to fuck around with black men, but God forbid white men from dating a Woman of Color!

White women show passive-aggressiveness towards my Asian girlfriend too. Usually in form of evil eyes or lectures about "how white men fetishize Asian women."

[Anonymous]

You should ask this question to White women.

Us White men don't answer for those wacky Karens.

[Asker]

But what do you think it was? Curiosity I avoided her stare because it was too intense

[Opinion Owner]

I suppose it depends how attractive your boyfriend is.
If he's someone she would want to date it might increase the chances of her having a jealous attitude because he prefers to date a woman of a different race.
I've had random White women that I didn't even know give me a dirty look just because I was dancing with a Filipino woman one time. It's none of her damn business and she probably fucks Black guys so what the hell is her problem? They're just selfish, they can date other races, but they don't want White men to do it.

[Asker]

He is attractive brunette has a glorious beard, pretty eyes, and has a skinny sleeper build. He would be attractive to the white female gaze

[Asker]

However sometimes white women and men will ask me "how did he pull you?" So I don't know

[Opinion Owner]

People are rude.
I was married to a Native woman and basically got attitude and weird comments from all kinds of people about it. What it always comes down to is that they were jealous, racist, or both.

[Asker]

I feel like its both this community isn't very welcoming to interracial couples. Or black people in general sometimes

[Opinion Owner]

That's crazy these days.
I would think White male/Black female couples should get even more respect than the opposite pairing. Black men and White women together are usually the most obnoxious interracial pairing because of White women's history of degrading White men (Queen of Spades and all that crap), and all the BBC porn that has a common theme of the White woman cheating on her White partner with Black guys. I can understand why some people might cringe seeing them together in public, but as for White male/Black female couples it's more about love.

[Asker]

Yes absolutely I agree, this may sound odd but I think for the most part ww that ir date are ungrateful for their men while every other WOC fights over them I don't know...

[Asker]

Black men and white women will stare at us but the truth is my man is great, he's a hard worker, a stand up man and will make me a wife and honest women before my own do. Not a baby mother I think those women were jealous and territorial over him they believe he belongs to them

[Opinion Owner]

There's definitely some that hate their own race, but whatever.
I was with that Native woman since I was 21 so I never dated many White women and now I'm pretty much drawn exclusively to women of color. I don't care if White women like Black guys, but I just don't like some of their disrespectful attitudes about it. In all the years I was with my ex I never used our relationship to degrade White women or suggest that she was better than White women.
I think people need to mind their own business.

[Opinion Owner]

Yeah, in your situation they may be territorial over him.
Too bad for them because he loves you.

[Asker]

I was so happy he stood in front of me, I didn't even want to look 😂

[Opinion Owner]

That's intense.
Two Native guys commented to my ex outside of a store one time, they said "At least we stick to Brown" as we got in our vehicle. At the time I didn't care because she was so hot and I knew they were ridiculously jealous that I was with her. I thought it was funny.

[bamesjond0069]

She's just checking you out, judging you, being a bitch. I don't think it has anything to do with race because same race girls do this exact same kind of stuff.

[RealMarek]

Maybe she was jealous. There is no telling really.

[pers0n]

So what? They didn't harm you.

[Asker]

But why the face? Why the stares? Was she territorial over him?