Are these positive signs regarding living together as a couple?
For a bit of context, we are both 26, in our first relationship, and we met on a hinge in June 2022; we made things official in August, and things are going great for us.
Last month my boyfriend and I began having sleepovers at his home; he lives alone and bought his home a year ago. Our first sleepover lasted a day, so his family invited me to spend Christmas with them; our recent sleepover lasted four days, and we recently had another sleepover over the new years weekend, and he has welcomed me to have more sleepovers as well and that I can leave some of my stuff at his home.
I was so happy that we cohabitated well; we went grocery shopping together, brought the groceries home, watched tv together, held hands as we watched, laughed, and he cooked dinners for me, and we even did a neighbourhood walk.
We had fun exploring things sexually and then went to bed. The one thing we found worked for us was to sleep in separate rooms, so we tried that and had a good night's sleep, lol, as he snores, and overall, we seem to wake each other up a lot.
Based on these few days' experience, I felt optimistic about living with him forever if our relationship stays long-term. Still, I'm not considering the work/life balance that would present itself as we have yet to have a work sleepover.
However, I would appreciate some insight. What are your thoughts?
What Girls & Guys Said
Not really. It is a sign that neither snores and rest is good.
I think it can be. I practically lived with my boyfriend for a year (I only spent 2 nights a week at home, rest of the time I was at his house). And then another 9 months later we found a place to live together. We’ve been living together for 10 months now and it’s still going great. Spending so much time together in the first year definitely showed how compatible we are when it comes to living together.